[Fae*Aibell]

Do you watch it?

If you are married looking back would you have considered letting you DH plan your wedding?

If you are not married would you leave your partner plan your wedding?

If you watch the show, do you really think the bride hasn't had a quiet word in the husbands ear about what she wants, before filming started?

[Mod-Lady Valkyrie]

Do you watch it? New ones when they're on, yes.

If you are not married would you leave your partner plan your wedding? Yeah. We've already spoken a bit about what I'd want anyway, and besides, I think the marriage is more important than the wedding really.

If you watch the show, do you really think the bride hasn't had a quiet word in the husbands ear about what she wants, before filming started?
No way. Have you noticed that most times the bride loves the wedding in the end? They definitely talk about it and then it's the editors of the programme who make it formulaic and make out like she's gonna hate this, that and the other.

[Fae*Aibell]

Do you watch it?I do, and i watch the Irish version too.

If you are married looking back would you have considered letting you DH plan your wedding? Back then, no way, he could hardly remember my birthday back then let alone little details i would have liked. If it was now 9 yrs down the line i would as he knows everything about me and what i do and don't like.

If you watch the show, do you really think the bride hasn't had a quiet word in the husbands ear about what she wants, before filming started? They definatly have a quiet word. Its amazing how they always come down to two dress options, one she would 'love' and one she would 'hate'. They always go for the one she would hate and guess what she loves it. I would love to see one of the brides throw a hissy fit in the bridal shop for once. The only episode that i really didn't think the groom had a clue what he was doing was the one where he went off to Vegas and didn't have enough money to bring her sisters to the wedding, that was him doing what he wanted regardless of the consequences, if i were her i wouldn't have gotten on that plane, because forget dresses and decorations, hotels and fancy cars, arn't weddings about pledging your love for one an other in front of family and friends who you choose to be there, and that poor girl really wanted her sisters there. I actually cried during that episode.

[Mod-Lady Valkyrie]

He was selfish, and if I'd have been her, I wouldn't have gone - and I may well have called the whole thing off, I'd have been so livid. I would NOT have got married without ALL my family there.

[Fae*Aibell]

Me too, my family were the most important thing at my wedding, and we made sure to include in any way we could our family members who had passed on, my wedding ring is my nan's, marks is his dads, and my other nana's wedding ring and engagement ring i wore on my other hand. If i had my time around again it would be a much smaller wedding with just our closest family and friends, Mark thinks the same as me. We had 100+ at our day and to be honest a lot of them i havn't even seen in years.

[dibbers]

Oh I LOVE this show!!
And I totally would let my BF plan the wedding I have said to him it would be my perfect wedding. All done in two weeks and no stress, FAB. As long as the dress was white and long I would love the whole thing. Apart from being on tv haha