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I will not make it to my appointment on tomorrow. I began cramping and had to go on to ER today. It tears my heart open to say that it was another ectopic pregnancy. I just don't know what to say or do anymore. Is it not in God's plans for me to ever be a mother. Four miscarriages!!! Even at this time, I was still blessed. They were able to catch it early this time, BEFORE it ruptured. And were able to give me meds in an attempt to save the one tube that I have left.
I am so numb right now that I do not know what tomorrow holds. But I hope that each of you continue to blessed and that your families are well.
Oh honey, I'm so sorry. How horrible. I know you feel like God doesn't want you to be a mother but this is not true. Your pain doesn't determine your role in life, and for what it's worth, you already are a mother to your four sweet angels. You sound like a strong woman but I wish with all my heart that you didn't have to be strong and struggle with this. Huge hugs. I'm praying for you.
Oh Lisa I am sooo sorry I hope that your other tube makes it through and moreso I hope YOUR ok. Please don't give up on being a mother. I won't lie to you and say I know how you feel but please please keep in mind there are other ways if it comes down to it. Aka adoption. But lets keep our fingers crossed about that tube right now and that we see you back on the expecting list soon!
I am so sorry. I can only imagine how much that hurts. Lots of hugs and well-wishes.
And please don't give up on being a mother. There is adoption. It is just as much, if not more, a miracle as physically carrying a baby and is in no way second-best. I should know as I'm adopted and my mother is my mother. You have so much love to give - there is a child waiting for you to be its mother, whether it's carried by you or someone else.
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Me - 34 and DH - 32
Unexplained Infertility - TTC #1 since 5/08.
6/10 - IUI #3 with Clomid 75mg. BFP! 6/27/10...It's TWINS!
Esme Mireille, 3 lbs. 10 oz., and Nadine Adele, 4 lbs. 4 oz., born Jan 29th. 2011.
I am so sorry. I can only imagine how much that hurts. Lots of hugs and well-wishes.
And please don't give up on being a mother. There is adoption. It is just as much, if not more, a miracle as physically carrying a baby and is in no way second-best. I should know as I'm adopted and my mother is my mother. You have so much love to give - there is a child waiting for you to be its mother, whether it's carried by you or someone else.
Beautifully put... there are so many children in this country hoping and waiting for a loving home...
I am SO sorry Lisa My heart breaks for you. I hope that everything goes as smoothly as possible in your recovery from this (physical and emotional). My thoughts will be with you.