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My dh just got back from being in germany for work... and it was so hard with him gone... I am sure you remember my post about it. Well now he has to go back to Germany AND to London. I dont really know how I am supposed to do it again, and for longer. It was so awful, and with the way things have been going around here lately... I am just going to break down. I know it is not his fault... but I am mad at him, partly because he gets to travel, eat out at fancy dinners, go for drinks, get to sleep through the night.... while I am here... Makes me sad. He does not seem to even mind that he has to go... like almost he wants to get away from us again. That hurts.
Awe, I'm so sorry he has to go again. I completely understand about feeling kinda resentful, I feel that way towards DH sometimes (especially when he complains he is tired...grrr) Before he goes, or when he gets back, is there anyway he could take the kids for a day and you could have a day to pamper yourself? It sounds like you need it!
I just dont like that he does not seem affected by this all... he knows I am having a real hard time dealing with becoming a new sahm, with two kids, and I am having all these tests and injections in my back, and dealing with my ppd issues. I would just think that he would understand how much I truly need him right now, and he is oblivious to reality. He has the kids 45 mins last night while I was packing and the kids were both screaming... how can he not see that what I do is exhausting, and I have the right to be sad or disappointed that he has to leave me to do it all alone again. That one week was pure hell... what am I going to do for two weeks! (deep breath taken!) It is just scary and hard....