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February 23rd, 2011, 01:51 PM
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So..my sister is going to have her baby any day now..and she is such a grump! Anyway, I am happy for her cause she has PCOS and TTC requires clomid for her...but it seems not to be to hard. But, her having another baby is hard too as you know.. Its hard watching anyone have a baby when you are TTC with so much trouble.

Well, DH and I decided a long time ago that we wanted to name our first daughter Marianna Rose. And when we have talked about our future baby girl we have called her Marianna. Well I just found out yesterday that she is naming her baby " Maryanna" or " Marianna" ! My sister has no idea we wanted to name out first girl that..and she doesnt even know that I know the name of her baby cause she has kept it a secret. Her daughter, who is 4 years old spilled it to us and is sure the baby but we dont know if it will be MaryAnna or Marianna....but its so close who cares...

I admit..when I heard that I almost cried. DH was like" Are you serious!" when I told him. It was rather shocking somehow.Even now when I think of holding her baby and calling her Maryanna it kills me! At least it may not be Marianna..I don't care about the name really its more well..TTC is getting harder and harder and the more time that goes by and the more time I don't Ovulate , the harder and less hopeful I feel..and now I have to see this newborn baby and call her by that name...Its going to kill me inside. Its silly I guess but it almost feels like she is stealing my baby. And I have to watch her raise her and think of the little "Marianna" that I had pictured in my mind and been praying for.

Anyway, I am trying not to dwell on it. I just hope she doesn't choose " Rose" as the middle name! Apparently there is talk of it.. Its so weird this is happening that it almost feels like a cruel joke..
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February 23rd, 2011, 02:04 PM
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I know how you feel. DH's brother has stolen every boy name from us. Before I even met DH, his brother's 1st was named Elijah. I always wanted to name a boy Elijah or Elisha and call him Eli. And that's what my BIL's first is called.
Then his 2nd (well... 1st with 2nd wife) is Daemiean (crazy spelling, but DH always wanted to have a son named Damian). And his 2nd wife's 2nd son they named Xavier which was my other boy name and DH also always wanted that one as well as Damian.

So we have absolutely no boy names. Though, we've considered still using Xavier since that baby died. But it also seems like poor taste.

Anyway, I'm really sorry to hear that your sister stole your name.
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February 24th, 2011, 08:20 AM
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Yikes...What a horrible thing.
I'm so sorry, hun!
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February 24th, 2011, 08:55 AM
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Happened to me with a girl I knew and TOLD what I wanted to name my son. Ryland. She named hers Rylan. I still don't speak to her. We were never close anyway so it was easy- but wow. :-/
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February 24th, 2011, 09:03 AM
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Oh gosh!
I have no idea what to say - I would be heartbroken if that happend to me.
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February 24th, 2011, 11:07 AM
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Thanks Ladies. I am sure I will get over it...and it doesnt bother me as much now that I sort got out my frustration...just have to come up with a new name!
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