[PlusSizeBarbie1988]

1st Hey rita!!!! I hope you are having a H&H pregnancy i thought about you the other day and just wonder'd how you were

Hello Ladies this may be a bittersweet moment for me but I have to do it..
-I am officially off the TTC path as of Feb of this yr. I tried to make things work .. and make myself believe that a child would fix the things that were wrong in my marriage .. However i realized it would not, and it would be unfair to another human to bring them into such a situation.. and I would of been in Danger none the less being pregnant (you know they say everything happens for a reason)

I was a victim of domestic violence and had been for a while.. TTC and being unsuccessful was making it 10 times worse.. I found joy in this board, and all of the ladies on it.. (some of you may remember me some may not).. while the man i thought i loved told me "i was not trying hard enough & purposely not getting pg"... you ladies lifted me above it.. told me there was hope and It made me feel like i was good enough..

My motto now Is "dont forget to smile".. its the simplest things in life that may just save someones life.. In your kind words to eachother and motavation you are fufilling a destiny greater than you know.. Love and Be loved if you smile at one person today you may just make thier day.. Dont forget to be thankful for the ones we have .. while we ebrace desires of what we want.. children are a blessing and Im positive all of you wonderful ladies will be blesses.. stay strong Love hard and "dont forget to smile"

and just a little side note: Through these hard times and My divorce i have had a wonderful Man/Best-Friend/Confidant/and support system by my side .. some say you never know what you've got until its gone.. I say you never know what you deserved until it arrives .. who knows maybe when he is off deployment i will be back and trying to get to the babymaking

I wish the best of luck and all the in the universe to you ladies..

[Ritzbitz]

HIIII!!!!!

i was wondering where you disappeared too but had no way of contacting you!!!!

I had no idea what was going on in your marriage, but i am so glad to hear that you are ok and doing well! i hope that the new person in your life treats you the way you deserve to be treated.. you are a beautiful girl with a beautiful heart and never forget that! we will always be here for you, ttc or not! so please feel free to post and lurk whenever!!! you can add me on fb, "Rita Mitrofanov"... we can always keep in touch there!

I am doing well... thank you for thinking of me.. 25 days til my due date and getting anxious!!!

i hope you'll be around more now!!

again, glad things are going so well for you now and always remember that is the way it should be!!! you deserve nothing less!!!!

HUGS!!!!!

[PlusSizeBarbie1988]

omg soooo close!! i remember when you got the BFP.. hehe good luck mamas imm soo happyy for you!!! im going to add you on fb right now "Nicole Victoria Owens"

[ready2Bamommy28]

Hi Nikki,

I'm not sure if you remeber me but I remember you, I was looking for you for a while and figured you were slacking on posting like me lol. I don't get on here much anymore but wanted to stop by and say I'm so sorry to hear about your marriage but am so happy for you and your new friend in your life. Things do happen for a reason and just see this all as a blessing. I'll keep you in my thoughts and prayers. I love your positive attitude.

[PlusSizeBarbie1988]

thank you hun! and of course i remember you! that baby is die sooon if im correct?? GL miss talking to ya.. <3 thank you for your thoughts sweets ttys

[*Manda*]

Hi Nikki! I remember you! I had wonderedwhat happened but figured you got busy IRL. I'm so sorry about your marriage but I commend you for stepping up and leaving. That takes unbelievable strength. So proud of you girl! Find me on Rita's facebook! I'm Amanda Peek!

[ready2Bamommy28]

Yes Nikki, baby is due 11/19/11 (same day as Rita) I sure hope she comes sooner tho.

[~* Natasha *~]

Hey!!!
I've often wondered about you hun!
I'm so sorry for what you have been through, but I'm super proud of you for the incredibly strong woman you have shown yourself to be in this situation!

I'm also so tickled to hear you have a special someone who is helping you through this situation and making you happy!

I just sent you a friend request on FB, Natasha Hay Viers.

[MamaAnna]

I'm so glad your situation is improved and it sounds like you're in a much better place!