Hi Katie
Don't take it too hard. How good was count? The better the count the less motility matters because 16% of those little guys are still moving. On our SA they want Motility at 80% I think. Anywho they want the % to be of approx 20 mil/ML. So if your DH had above average sperm then thats more you have working for you.
Secondly you are NOT alone. My DH just got some rough blows as well. His count was "normal" at 24 mil but his morphology was a 19 and his motility was at 30 with only 5% being fast progressing motility.
Have you ever checked out the instead cups? I used them this cycle because it made sense to me when I started researching. Essentially they hold everything up there right close to the cervix so its less moving for the sperm to have to do. I dunno if it worked yet or not for me but I'll know for sure in a few days.