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[MommaHarvey]

I hate that you are being put thru this with DH's family. They are the ones you should be able to rely on the most.

However if you feel this way and need to vent, this is a safe place to do it. We have all been thru trying times during our different journeys, and even if we don't understand, in a way we still do understand. Plus it's not healthy to keep your feelings in. Stress makes TTC so much harder.

I hope things get better soon. I know it's hard but try to focus on DH and yourself and don't give those who don't support what your going thru any extra emotional attention.

[~* Natasha *~]

Gosh hun, I'm so sorry. That stinks so bad and it's hard to see even people you truly do love and care about get pg, much less people who are mean/bitter and seem (even somewhat) inconsiderate or careless about the blessing that is a healthy pregnancy......

I hope things get better for you and good luck with this situation!

[MamaAnna]

I'd be hella bitter, too. New baby aside they had no right to treat your DH or SS that way and then make demands of all of you. **** them!

[sandibeach]

I can completely understand about being bitter! I have a completely different situation then you but at the same time have a family member who thinks that getting pregnant is something she can just do or not do (aka get an abortion) whenever she feels like it. It makes me so upset. I'm struggling with not being bitter too, but venting definitely helps!

[aubers68]

So sorry you have to deal with that. Parts of me want to give others the benefit of the doubt and think, "Ok maybe they just want you to be included because they know you want a baby and they want you to feel welcomed around theirs" then parts of me feel like that's a bunch of bull and they just have no consideration for your situation. UGH people suck, they really do. I know I've had my share of inconsiderate family members myself. Wouldn't it be so nice if we could put our politeness aside and tell them how it really is?!?!

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[MamaAnna]

I love how you just threw the RE in there.

[Sugar1802]

Originally Posted by sandibeach

I can completely understand about being bitter! I have a completely different situation then you but at the same time have a family member who thinks that getting pregnant is something she can just do or not do (aka get an abortion) whenever she feels like it. It makes me so upset. I'm struggling with not being bitter too, but venting definitely helps!

I agree with you! It is so hard when everyone around you gets pregnant either without trying numerous times or just has an abortion because they don't want a kid. It is hard seeing this and not being bitter. I am always trying to be happy for my friends and family but not one of them understands that what it is like not having any kids yet and trying so hard