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November 6th, 2012, 04:16 AM
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If one more rude, insensitive, ignorant person asks me "When are you and Mike having kids??" I'm going to burst into tears and tell them something really rude! How do you guys handle this stuff?? Its SO frustrating! And it usually happens the day I get yet another negative test!
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November 6th, 2012, 09:08 AM
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I'm honest with them. I tell them that we would love to have kids but I'm infertile. That usually gets them to shut up pretty quickly.
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November 8th, 2012, 03:14 PM
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Before I got pregnant that was the worst feeling in the world. But you have to try your best to understand that those people don't know what's going on in your life and are just curious to know more about your plans for your future. I would always grin and bear it. If the person was someone close I would say something like "Oh we're trying but we have some personal obstacles that are holding us back a little." (beware, by telling people, they will ask more, or even in my case, check in on me more often, which was even worse) OR you could just go with the "maybe one day down the road, but right now we're focusing on us" Good luck to you! That question was one of the worst things to hear.... and one more thing... once people know you're trying and you have problems... they will start with the "don't try so hard, it will happen when it's supposed to"
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November 9th, 2012, 04:29 PM
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Sometimes I just laugh it off in front of them and just say,"soon". And if they ask if im trying I tell them "a little, if it happens, it happens." just to shut them up.
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