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I honestly did not expect to be back on this site so soon after my marriage fell apart. Brief recap- He was looking for other women before we left Germany to go to NY. I hesitantly gave him another chance. The Army messed up the pay and I had to come back to Washington to stay with my parents. He was talking about how we were going to do IVF from the money we saved by me being with my parents. Well, he was right at it again when I got back here and we ended it all back in early August. He got re-engaged to someone who fell for his lies just a month later... now back to me, I was taking my time to get over it all. I was in no rush to move on quick. Around Halloween I found myself in the wrong place at the wrong time. I made a huge mistake by being there and a one time only thing has gotten me pregnant! I just found out on Tuesday. It took me by huge surprise! After trying for so long and doctors blaming my PCOS I didnt know what to say. I am now in this alone, yet it is bittersweet based on what I went through. I guess it had a huge part on him after all. The clinic in Germany said his sperm was average but the clinic here in Washington told me his results were bad. That being said.. I know how hard PCOS can feel.. but I think now anything is possible and if anyone ever tells me that trouble conceiving was my fault only, I might want a second opinion. I hope you ladies get what you desperately want and I hope you can tell your DH you want them re-tested if itll ease your mind.
Of course I remember you! In fact, I was just thinking about you the other day wondering how you were. I'm so sorry about what happened with your ex-husband. I can't believe he's engaged again already! I know this must be bittersweet for you, but it's such a blessing in a way that it happened now instead of with your ex-husband. I'm sure you'll be a wonderful mother, single or not.
Thanks Bokkechick for my wonderful siggy! TTC Blog
Thank you. I really did not expect to be facing single motherhood. I thought I would have to meet someone new and then get back into medical treatments down the road. I still owe it all to the Ovarian Drilling surgery that put my periods and body back to how it should be. If anyone ever has questions of that or even clomid and injections.. Ive done it all. I guess the OOoops Method worked best for me.
Melissa I've thought about you several times since you left the board, and wondered how you were doing. Sorry to hear you've gone thru so much and had such a rough time. But I'm so excited that you are expecting. I know you'll be a great mom, and you and your LO will be blessed to have each other.