[KaiyaRae'sMomma]

good that I can still post about....

Since having Kaiya I have lost a total of 46lbs., including the pregnancy weight I gained. So I am now 18lbs under my pre-pregnancy weight. My goal is to lose another 15lbs before we start trying for the next baby. I have a while, since we are no where near ready emotionally for that yet!

[Mom2EthanAndJett]

o wow!! That is soo awesome girl!! keep the good work up!! I need to get on it, haha.

[kimberlyw]

That is fantastic!!

I have 30 to go before I reach my goal - but I have lost 24 so far!

[kileechatseal]

46lbs is great! I am about 5 lbs. below prepregnancy weight and it is very, very, very slowly still coming off. I would like to lose another 5-10 lbs. but it's hard because I love my food, particullarly junk food.

[JessW7]

Thats so great! I wish I lost that much before getting knocked up again :/ I only lost 20 of the 40 I put on and so Im starting to head in the opposite direction of my goal again. Im glad you are losing yours and glad to hear you guys will someday be having another.

[SpydrMnky27]

Wow! That is awesome!! KUTGW!!

[caitie.pie]

Congrats! and GL with losing to your goal weight! 46lbs is amazing!

[J_n_JsMommy]

Wow thats amazing!! Great job!

Even if you are not ready emotionally to try right now, keep looking towards that day. It is different for everyone but having LIFE to look forward to will help you a lot. Think of you and Kaiya daily (even though I don't really post here anymore). There is actually a book "Trying Again" I think its called that I found helpful after we lost ds2, also I read Taking Charge of Your Fertility so that when we did try again it wouldn't be months of more heartache with bfn's before conceiving. Another book "Empty Cradle Full Heart" was filled with very positive reflections from others who have lost babies from miscarriage, stillbirth and infant death. These were all things I read to sort of pass the time...it is such a state of limbo.