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September 22nd, 2009, 04:33 PM
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We're in our 18th cycle of TTCAL. What are some ways to keep our BDing more exciting and less routine?
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September 22nd, 2009, 05:34 PM
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Hmm... my personal favs would have to be cooking in lingerie and reading/watching naughty stories and videos... two of my three were conceived that way! I'm always up for more ideas!
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September 22nd, 2009, 06:51 PM
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This has already become a struggle for me and we are not quite at our one year mark yet. I am sure DH does not even notice that its a struggle but I have been trying hard to keep it intersting. One of the things I do is remember that sometimes its ok to not BD but just "make a mess" as DH calls it. We both get the fulfillment and we know there will be no fertilization out of it but it helps me remember the fun of it.

I also used to be really quick to get dressed out of the shower but I have also started walking around in underwear only - then the odd spontaneous BDing happens (even when we are not around O time).

I don't know if either of these are really working or not but hopefully there are some other good suggestions out there.
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September 23rd, 2009, 07:51 AM
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We have made a joke out of "the soldiers catching the eggie" so he acts like he's going "comando" to take the egg down LOL

We have been trying going on 19 cycles total now too....

I can't say that it's always been peaches and cream... sometimes we just don't feel like it, but others we're like rabbits. Different places in the house, different positions, being sexy and stripteasing. Allot of foreplay is helpful to get really turned on and even a little alcohol to loosen things up all over.

I'm not sure if this helps, but I hope you get some ideas

Oh, have you ever tried sexy "games" like the adult kind? They have dice, board games and so much more... even different sensational lubes or massage oils are fun because they introduce another sentation maximizing pleasure! (if you like that sort of thing)
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September 23rd, 2009, 07:25 PM
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To shake it up a bit we didn't go to the bedroom last night
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September 23rd, 2009, 09:21 PM
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Rebel Kim!!!

But that is exactly the kind of thing you need to do to make sure you and he stay interesting and remember the purpose (or forget the purpose as the case may be).
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To shake it up a bit we didn't go to the bedroom last night
You go, you *naughty* kids
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way to go!

DH and I had some fun after a day at the races the other night... and we were staying at his parents.. so made it more fun in a way lol.
And as we are in the 2ww it wasn't done out of obligation or anything.. just pure fun which was lots of fun.

I have to admit... I love drunk sex.. its not for everyone.. and... it doesn't happen nearly as much as it used to now that we are trying for a baby (as we both don't drink as much) - but its great to loosen up sometimes and it helps us

best of luck and way to go on the outside of the bedroom shananigans
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I missed this some how.. LOL ...

Were have zippered furry pillow that holds... our "play things" When we need that "extra spice" (never around O time) But the days right after AF, and After I know we have O'd... We pull out the toys, the "tonge zinger", the tingle creams... you get the dift... The neighbor and I have a "toy demostration" every year... This will be the first in 6 years we are not cohosting it together (she is getting a divorce, I'm pretty stocked up anyhow)

Another thing I do is were something sexy under my clothes... and when he "finds" it.... yea turn on for him...

I also sneak in when he is in the shower....

Those are my "get you in the mood... keep it interesting" !
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Wow there are some great ideas here thanks for sharing ladies.
I know we have done the different places of the house, like one night in the pantry while dinner was cooking LOL. It does keep things interesting.
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It gets a bit hard to be spontenous when you already have kids. Once we had to pretend that we were fixing up the basement and lock ourselves in there. LOL.
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