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October 22nd, 2009, 02:34 AM
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i had a miscarrige in april of this year. my fiance and i have been trying to become pregnant since but its not working. i'm unsure if something may be wrong with me from the dnc or if something is wrong with him. we want a baby very bad. my fiance will not discuss adoption. this problem is causing a lot of problems between me and my fiance. if anyone can help please help me.
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October 24th, 2009, 03:15 PM
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Do you have any medical conditions that you know of? If your doctors are anything like mine, they won't take you seriously until you have been trying for over a year. And that SUCKS! Do you chart or use OPKs to see if you're ovulating?
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October 26th, 2009, 12:06 PM
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I would ask them to start bloodwork... Even if it is basic... I wish I would have pushed sooner after my second loss... than maybe I wouldn't of had my third loss... HUGS
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Sometimes after a loss women get pg again with no problems at all. Other times they can do everything right will TTC and it can still take forever to get pg (like me). If you have concerns you should definitely discuss them with your Dr. Unfortunately we have very little control over such things.

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I'm sorry to hear that you're having a difficult time right now... definitely discuss these things with your dr and push for bloodwork. If you have good ins. then it shouldn't be a problem for them to even get more detailed tests done.

If it creates problems in your relationship, then you both need to discuss what your feelings are and go from there... even if you need to take a break from it all to "reconnect" with each other and let go of stressing over ttc. It IS stressful and a break isn't always what we want to do, but to keep our sanity and our marriages it's better than the alternative being stressed out and possibly arguing with our DH's right?! LOL!

I hope you can get things looked into and find an answer... or at least reduction in the stress
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