In Limbo, 6+ months, 2 week wait, 2 week wait to O.
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from 6 months post loss. I am SAD that i have made it this far... i want to be pregnant so bad. I feel like it will never happen. I am forgetting how amazing it was to see a bfp and feel like i may never seen one again. It doesn't help that it gets harder every single day. I am trying really hard to busy myself and distract myself with projects. I am trying to draw myself away from the obsession that can occur while ttc. I am just praying that God gives me a baby soon...preferably before i lose my mind. I'd like to say i hope my stay here is short but it is likely that it won't be. I am grateful to have some ladies that understand what i'm going through. Thanks, as always.
Have Faith, Expect Miracles
SHHHH!! Don't mention Pregnancy on FB please!!
Kate - hitting the 6 month mark post loss is a hard one to hit. It's hard to realize you should be so close to holding your baby - you should have a cute little baby belly - you should be decorating your own nursery. But IT WILL HAPPEN. I have always hated when people told me that because no one knows what the future holds. But no matter what Kate you will find a way to be a mom. And you will be a better mom for all you have had to endure.
I know you said its July before you head for medical testing but have you thought about going down the path of natural or chinese medicine. I have heard great things about naturopaths and am currently getting acupuncture for a fertility boost (well mine is to attempt to "hold" the next pregnancy). I can tell you that my first appointment gave me nothing but hope and it helped boost my dreary mood in regards to TTC. I felt, for once, that I could relax and just get through the days because someone else was helping figure my body out. I have not gotten results yet (obviously you would know that already) but I have notived things changing - cycle is a bit longer, ovulation pain on the left instead of the right, etc. So even if it does nothing else but relax you it might be worth looking into holistic options before turning to medical options.
Thanks Chelsea (GraysMama) for my fantastic signature!
After my loss I was 100% convinced that I would be PG before my EDD rolled around - we all know that I wasn't. The world works in mysterious ways. I wish there was a magic formula that I could share to make it easier for you. I just hold on to the thought that I know that I will be a mother one day.
Kate, HUGS.... I have hit the 6 month post m/c... twice... and next month I will hit it again..... It is hard to think I am still here... If you would have asked me this over a year ago... I would have told you oh I will have a baby by now.... but nope... yesterday was my one year angelversary from the loss of my little girl... and I am still looking at another EDD May 10, 2010.... I have lost hope that I will be pregnant by than.. since I have already been through 2 EDD, 2 Angelversaries... right now... all I can do is take one day at a time... now. And try to stay sane, and not loose faith... HUGS
Thank you GraysMama For my BEAUTIFUL Siggy!!!
BFP 11/09/08 M/C 11/11/08 BFP 01/02/09 M/C 01/29/09 BFP 08/26/09 M/C 10/02/09 Missing our 3 Angles