In Limbo, 6+ months, 2 week wait, 2 week wait to O.
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For me, hitting the 6 month TTCAL and 1 year TTC mark was really hard to take. I had been telling myself since TTC not to worry, worst case scenario 'by March I will be pg'. And from our loss I had been telling myself, don't worry, worst case scenario 'by March I will be pg'. Turns out my worst case scenario wasn't the worst case scenario
And now, not only am I this far into TTC and TTCAL, but I am looking at most likely having to start Clomid for irregular cycles. Definitely didn't plan for that.
Of course it's really sad, but it's also like I'm numb and kind of lost... this wasn't a place I ever thought about being.
What changed in your mind? I know that when I get pregnant, I will be scared and probably not that excited.. When I got pregnant for the first time, I cannot describe how excited and over the moon I was. The ending of it was such a shocker!! I got PG again and that joy of expecting a baby wasn't there anymore....I was scared and surprise surprise had another m/c... So I can say that I lot has changed in my mind. I am not as optimistic as I was before but i am still trying to stay positive...
What did you start doing differently? I wanted to get PG sooo much after my first m/c that I basically forced myself and DH to BD every single day...I felt a lot of pressure from the TTC process. I am not going to do that again.
Did you start obsessing more? I think I've had a serious baby fever for quite some time. i do no think I could become more obsessed than i already am. I am actually calm and not extremely obsessed this cycle as I set some time for my body to heal... we decided to NTNP while waiting and just enjoy ourselves.. if it happens, it happens.. if not, we're going to be BD like crazy in July.