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January 1st, 2011, 09:10 PM
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I want to tell everyone that I'm so sorry for those of you who are going thru a loss right now. There's too many of us here who know of the pain all too well of what is happening to you and we're all so very sorry... We cannot express our deepest heartfelt apologies to you in a way that would be comforting to you sorrowing heart. It's painful, it's surreal, it's angering and bittering... don't let this steal the best of you during your healing and grieving. But do take time for you, take time and be patient with yourself... allow yourself to feel, to diflect, to direct, to be pissed off, short tempered, lackadazical, sobbing, wanting to be alone and the huge array of emotions / feeling you're going to go thru. Understand that there is no understanding... sometimes there just isn't a reason.

It's never easy. I'm so sorry please know that we surroung each of you with our love, thoughts and prayers... please tell us if there's anything we can do for you!

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January 1st, 2011, 09:26 PM
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Thank you for posting this Celena. I agree with everything you said, and hope that if any of our grieving ladies need anything, they wont hesitate to ask. If I can do anything to take away a little of the hurt I would do it. Im praying for peace for them.
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January 1st, 2011, 10:05 PM
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from me too. I was thinking about posting something like this.

Please feel free to stop by the Pregnancy Loss forum if you need a place to work through it. It really helped me in the months soon after Cora's death and years afterward.

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January 2nd, 2011, 03:07 AM
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What a wonderful post.
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January 2nd, 2011, 05:09 AM
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January 2nd, 2011, 05:13 AM
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this made me cry. I dont have a support system about this pregnancy so having you girls to talk to and pray for me is amazingly helpful. Thanks so much for being there!!
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January 2nd, 2011, 07:30 AM
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I whole heartedly agree.
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January 2nd, 2011, 08:05 AM
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January 2nd, 2011, 08:11 AM
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January 2nd, 2011, 09:37 AM
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This is a great post and I could not have said it better myself.
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January 2nd, 2011, 10:19 AM
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my first loss was one of the worse experiences of my life and my heart breaks for each of you ((hugs))
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January 2nd, 2011, 10:22 AM
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This is a great post!
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January 2nd, 2011, 11:19 AM
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Celena said it perfectly.

I ditto the suggestion to visit the loss forum. The wonderful ladies there really helped me when I had my second loss.

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January 2nd, 2011, 12:52 PM
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January 2nd, 2011, 01:35 PM
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There are fabulous ladies in this board, my heart goes out to all who have experienced a loss....

Hugs!
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January 2nd, 2011, 02:08 PM
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What a great post and I agree with everything everyone has said. My heart breaks for every loss post I see. I hope this will be a year of healing for everyone.
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January 2nd, 2011, 03:37 PM
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