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I want to tell everyone that I'm so sorry for those of you who are going thru a loss right now. There's too many of us here who know of the pain all too well of what is happening to you and we're all so very sorry... We cannot express our deepest heartfelt apologies to you in a way that would be comforting to you sorrowing heart. It's painful, it's surreal, it's angering and bittering... don't let this steal the best of you during your healing and grieving. But do take time for you, take time and be patient with yourself... allow yourself to feel, to diflect, to direct, to be pissed off, short tempered, lackadazical, sobbing, wanting to be alone and the huge array of emotions / feeling you're going to go thru. Understand that there is no understanding... sometimes there just isn't a reason.
It's never easy. I'm so sorry please know that we surroung each of you with our love, thoughts and prayers... please tell us if there's anything we can do for you!
Thank you for posting this Celena. I agree with everything you said, and hope that if any of our grieving ladies need anything, they wont hesitate to ask. If I can do anything to take away a little of the hurt I would do it. Im praying for peace for them.
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Mom to Colton,Megan, Caitlyn, Nick, Brandon and 2 angels.
BFP Dec 2010 hcg Dec 18 13dpo 58... Dec 20 15 dpo 190.4 (28 hr doubling) [/url
from me too. I was thinking about posting something like this.
Please feel free to stop by the Pregnancy Loss forum if you need a place to work through it. It really helped me in the months soon after Cora's death and years afterward.
this made me cry. I dont have a support system about this pregnancy so having you girls to talk to and pray for me is amazingly helpful. Thanks so much for being there!!
my first loss was one of the worse experiences of my life and my heart breaks for each of you ((hugs))
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“I think that the best thing we can do for our children is to allow them to do things for themselves, allow them to be strong, allow them to experience life on their own terms, allow them to take the subway...let them be better people, let them believe more in themselves.”
“Motherhood is a choice you make everyday, to put someone else's happiness and well-being ahead of your own, to teach the hard lessons, to do the right thing even when you're not sure what the right thing is...and to forgive yourself, over and over again, for doing everything wrong.”
What a great post and I agree with everything everyone has said. My heart breaks for every loss post I see. I hope this will be a year of healing for everyone.