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wow its been a while since I logged in last!! march 31 to be exact! I have spent most of my pregnancy depressed and on bed rest! I have preeclampsia now too! One thing after another. My kids leave next week for 2 months to visit their dad and while that may be a good thing to some-I am dreading it! My kids keep me happy. They are the reason I get up every day! So I am kinda sad and worried!!! Dr's moved my EDD a few months ago. I was due with hykstar-but now its July 18th! ugh! That puts me at 34 weeks and a few days. I would post an U/S pic but I use my cell for internet so I cant upload here! Hope everyone is doing well! i wil check in more. xo Dena PS: does anyone remember me???? lol
Welcome back! I am sorry about the preeclampsia. Hopefully you wont have to be induced early for it.
I can understand how the kids leaving is gonna be hard, but on the flip side, it will give you a month to be able to focus all your attention on the new baby.
Aww, sorry you've been on bed rest, have pre-e, and now your kids are leaving That's a lot all piled on! On the bright side, you'll have a new baby soon!
thanks guys! and on a brighter note, ex has come around-some what. he has been helping out with stuff around the house and getting ready for baby. I moved in feb and it seems there is still so much to do! everytime i turn around, another box magically appears!! lol. i wrecked my car too-in april- can u say stroke of bad luck?
Welcome back! I am sorry about the preeclampsia. Hopefully you wont have to be induced early for it.
I can understand how the kids leaving is gonna be hard, but on the flip side, it will give you a month to be able to focus all your attention on the new baby.
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hey u! good to see u! the plan is to induce on the 28th atm. so we will see. and i am trying so hard to look @ the bright side and think positive about my kids being gone for so long. it just stinks b.c they won't be here when i bring Kaitlyn home and that worries me about the bonding with them vs. her! i am sure i am worrying for no reason-but thats me! i worry about every little thing! lol how have u been? hope all is well!
I agree with pieceangel! Lets hope baby = good luck and I am glad to hear the your ex is helping out. Its gotta be hard being on bed rest and trying to prepare for the baby.
I am doing pretty good. 4 weeks left (no signs of her coming early), dr did finally help me with the morning sickness so things have been better since. I am hoping to have a nursery done at some point but its such a daunting task.
Welcome back,sorry you have had to and are dealing with so much.I am due the 17th of July,seems like forever but time has flown so far.I would not worry about the kids bonding with her,I think it will come naturally for them both.You are so blessed,you seem to have awesome kids and another on the way,so glad to hear a parent say I want my kids here with me rather than trying to get rid of them at every chance they can get,you sound like an awesome Mommy so be proud of that!!!It seems like and I am guilty of this too that we focus on the negative more than the positive but at least there is a positive,that's something to happy and grateful for.Anyway sorry for the novel.I just wanted to cheer you up.
Welcome Back..sorry you are having a rough time..but remember nothing lasts forever! your baby will be here soon!! HUGS!!hope things get better for ya!
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Hello! Welcome back hun, I thought of you a few weeks ago and wondered how you were! I hope your feeling better! I know what you mean about missing your kids, even miss mine when I am at work, Glad to have you back and posting!
Welcome back Dena! Sorry that you are having a craptastic time. I was put on modified bed rest on Tuesday, and it is driving me absolutely crazy. The only times I have really been on my feet have been to walk over to the neighbors to let their dog out and then to walk from where I'm at to the bathroom.
I can also relate to you with the kids being gone thing. Mike leaves for his father's on Wednesday. He'll be back on the 2nd for the week and then back to them again until mid July.
Try and keep your head up with all that is going on with you right now. The stress isn't going to do you any good. If only I would take my own advice.
I'm very sorry to hear about all of this. I'm sending out good vibes to you. Hopefully the rest of the pregnancy goes smoothly and baby is alright. Welcome back; it's a good place to battle some of the depression.
Glad you're back! Hope things are getting better soon and the baby doesn't have much longer to bake. It'll all work out...it just ain't easy these days.
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