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Ha... sex? what is that? We haven't DTD since we got pregnant. It is mainly me that never wants it. First trimester: sick, second trimester: veins in my girly parts are already swollen to twice the normal size, third trimester: HA! So yeah, he can't WAIT til we are cleared post-partum. I dread it. I miss the intimacy but am SO not looking forward to the pain.
*A HUGE thank you to Maitri for my beautiful siggy!
Ugh sex is a topic that makes me mad! Hubby has never had a high sex drive. Well, maybe he does but mine is like a million times higher so we always fight about it! He always falls asleep as soon as his head touches the pillow and that happened again last night!!!!! I was so upset! He works overnights so on his nights off I want it bad, lol. We will see how tonight pans out. I have a feeling he will fall asleep on me again. Yuck.
It's still happening for us but it is way different. The big belly really doesn't work for either of us, but we like to keep the connection going. Soooo we make the most of it laugh a lot and hope it's softening the cervix up. I cannot wait to get back to unpg sex!
We went through our whole pregnancy with no sex (I think before I was 30 weeks we only did it maybe a total of 6 times... I know, I am horrible!) Poor DH has been suffering so long. But sex just hurt me so bad that I never wanted to do it! But here is the secret: I totally insert lube with a medicine dipper now. All pain has gone away and I can actually enjoy myself! I am hoping we can keep up with it until delivery. For DH's sake and my cervix
We're still having sex quite frequently (although not quite as much as before I got pregnant- we both had incredibly high sex drives! lol.. the weekend we think Sophia was conceived, it was 8 times in 3 days haha).. anyway.. it's about every second or third day now, unless I'm particularly uncomfortable or something.
no sex here..!will not be doing it till im 37 weeks.. then i'll just just give in .. right now its soo painful. i have not had it for months..!!! poor dh is getting only jobs..lolz..!! atleast its better than him not having sex for months i guess..!!! but for me im soo hurt in there as if a knife is been poked in my v jay.. so im totally not in the mood by night time specially.!!!