How's your sex life?

w292737 · #1 April 6th, 2012, 04:53 AM

Now that baby Is older and sleeping more, how's your sex life? Are you getting any?

KirstyB · #2 April 6th, 2012, 05:37 AM

. Sorry wrong board. I'm from oct

mico · #3 April 6th, 2012, 05:40 AM

we try for once a week, ends up being MAYBE twice a month... our room is SUPER close to Parkers, and everything about our house creaks. Have I mentioned how much I can't wait to move?

~Rae~ · #4 April 6th, 2012, 05:50 AM

We settled into a good routine with both kids about 6 months ago. Everything has been back to normal since then.
Some times we're close to every day, and others we are a couple times a month. It just depends.

We do have an in-house date night after the kids are asleep every week, 1-2 nights a week, though.

babi_lovin11 · #5 April 6th, 2012, 06:01 AM

Well my DF is away working now and it has been 7 days since we DTD and it SUCKSS

We started having sex again around 4 week PP and we normally do it at least 2-3 times a week.

Carter still sleeps in our room so we move the mattress onto the floor, but thats only for the wee morning loving at like 5 am, if we are going to DTD after the kids are asleep we will put Carter to sleep in the living room in his PNP and take him to sleep in his crib after we are done.

MommytoaMiracle · #6 April 6th, 2012, 06:33 AM

Yes, it's pretty good!
We try to get around to it a few times a week.

DaniB+3 · #7 April 6th, 2012, 06:52 AM

Not getting any here. We had only been DTD about once a month after the baby was born but now we're in a 2 months-and-counting dry spell. We have a lack of privacy (co-sleeping with baby and living with both of my parents) plus I'm having issues feeling touched out with the whole BFing thing. I really do miss sex though and look forward to hopefully having it again soon

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tricia_16_ · #8 April 6th, 2012, 06:55 AM

Was about twice a week for a while, but between my butt surgery in Feb and thrush for the past month, it has been lacking even more. If I could only stay healthy for more than a day at a time.... lol

joonzgurl · #9 April 6th, 2012, 07:08 AM

Well, Avery is older but not sleeping better! Our sex life stinks. When I want to, he isn't up for it (no pun intended

) and when he wants to, I am too tired. We really need to work and becoming connected again.

breathing for two · #10 April 6th, 2012, 08:22 AM

We have in a month what we used to have in a day Eli wakes up every single time

Mama.Angie · #11 April 6th, 2012, 08:29 AM

I am getting more than ever before! I had such insane problems after I had Kairi, and honestly didn't DTD for well over a year. We DTD to conceive Alexis 3 years later, and it was STILL uncomfortable and painful. After Alexis, the Dr. fixed me up, and the first time after her birth was GREAT. It was such a relief to have control of my body back! Now we're at it any chance we get!

marieks85 · #12 April 6th, 2012, 08:47 AM

Well my BF WANTS every night but I settle for once a week. I think I'm slightly resentful because after we DTD he gets to sleep and I get to get up all night with DS. I think he would get more action if he helped more because not having sex does not bother me one bit

Dixana · #13 April 6th, 2012, 09:09 AM

Sex? Whats that......

tobi4 · #14 April 6th, 2012, 09:29 AM

Now that our babies are sleeping more .... not this one! He sleeps less and less. He cries most of the night, we finally get sleep after 3. Then hes only up a couple times after that. And df isnt really to 'go getter' type. So between lack of opportunity, and my df's lack of drive Im not getting anything!

CoreenaC · #15 April 6th, 2012, 09:39 AM

Depends, if I'm taking my pill like a good girl, great! If not, then oops, too bad. DH is too lazy to go get some romping rondems

then he has to deal with this exhausted mama forgetting her pill every once in awhile!

Admin-Rachel · #16 April 6th, 2012, 11:49 AM

We had gone for a pretty long stretch without getting any, but we broke that streak last night.

Some weeks are better than others. It really depends on his schedule more than anything else. Keelan is usually asleep for a good stretch at 9-10, so we have the time if Neely can stay awake.

Dee Darling 3 · #17 April 6th, 2012, 12:23 PM

Sex????

We actually managed to maybe have sex 3 times last month? I'm just so tired from work and life most nights that I'm nodding off before 10 pm. I still don't even have much of a sex drive.

sweetgirl51305 · #18 April 6th, 2012, 01:35 PM

Too tired to even get in the mood here. Between taking care of Lilli, school, homework, and doing everything around here, I could care less. We've had sex maybe once in the last 3 months??!