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Ok so I posted the 3 u/s pics I posted here on fb on Friday. I found it ironic that my sister (the one with all the drama with the one we lost...she disowned me for being pregnant etc) was the first to respond. She said congrats and I think it bothered me because I know she isn't happy for us at all...and I'd rather her not say anything than be fake. Well she called my mom and went off on her because I posted u/s pictures...like I FORCED her to look at them?? And why chew my mom out??
Also she's telling anyone who will listen how terrible it is that her sister is pregnant and how she's going to call her doctor and tell her she best find out what's wrong because she has to get pregnant NOW!! Keep in mind her doctor didn't know what was wrong (she can get pregnant but loses it really quick...within a week of finding out...basically she loses it before most people would even know they're pregnant). Her doctor told her there was nothing more she can do for her and referred her to a fertility specialist who won't go any further until they do some genetic testing @ the price of $3K which they can't afford. I feel bad for her but I can't stand the way she acts out...and she's too chicken to say anything to me...
I'm sorry hun..Yea I can't stand fake people..And why call your mom and yell at her about it. I mean I bet it's really hard on her, but she can't take it out on other people. that's a lot of money to see a fertility specialist.
It's sad how she's having trouble having a baby, and I wish her all the luck in her success. But fake people annoy me. My mother is one of the many who act out and have " oh poor me," and "the world revolves around me." and " Thing's go wrong just to make me sad! Other people plan on making me upset with there thought out happiness!" Crap. Drama queen is what she is! But I normally bite my tounge. and I'm sure she's getting more on your nerves now that you're pregnant, and some of it is DEFFO jealousy.
Lil' Mister, Spencer James is due to arrive 11/1/11!
GO TEAM BLUE!!
Aww... sorry she is being like that. I hate fake people and the stuff they do. And I just love how she called your mom because your mom can do what??? *rolls eyes* I'm sorry she has such a hard time having a baby. Hopefully she comes around and actually means it.
I agree with you about not wanting her not to comment at all on your pics. If she doesn't mean it then she should just keep her month shut. It is very sad that she is having such difficulties getting pregnant but she should never take it out on you. I hope she realizes what she is doing and changes her ways.
I would love to think this is something she would grow out of but she is one of those "woe is me" people that if she isn't happy nobody else should be either...the world revolves around her...and she's always been that way...and I don't look for it to ever change. This is my 4th pregnancy...and she acts badly every time. You just grow to expect it...
I hate fake people, but sometimes they can only fake the joy that they know you want them to feel. Been there-after our first loss, we were told that we would never be able to have children. I could never understand how a loving committed couple couldn't yet a friend who made poor lifestyle choices could. I attended her shower and helped with her daughter, but didn't actually felt happy for her, I would cry all the way home. Time was the only thing that allowed me to heal enough to be happy for her.
Remember, your mom is her mom too and it sounds like you share some of the same friends. We need to be able to vent and these are the people we feel safe doing so with-we aren't always trying to be hateful to someone else but express the pain we feel.
My mother and I have a rule as I work for my brother and at times can't stand him. I need to be able to tell her how I feel, but she does not share that with anyone else, especially him. She talks me through my feelings. Maybe she could do this for you and your sister.