I have learned to listen to my mommy instincts

LOVE DH, but when my oldest daughter woke up with swollen puffy eyes a couple months back, he said it's because she cried earlier; ended up being Pink Eye and she was put on antibiotics and what not. Daddies mean well, but they don't have our mommy-senses! Don't beat yourself up; like Alissa said - babies can't talk. They cry over everything and it's hard to distinguish one cry from another. You're a good mommy & she'll be fine!!