wow- not much i can say to help except i commend you for not ending the pregnancy-
have you talked to anyone about this ( like a therapist or something??)
or maybe a support group of women in similar situation-
Pregnant by Rape Information and Support
dont know how good this is but it might help??
I know after I lost my twins if it wernt for the support groups I found i would have been lost-
& as far as your daughter goes- LOL mine is 7 & she is suddenly into this BABY talk that is driving me CRAZY

This to shall pass-
on a side note- its official I am SICK- I have this awful cough & my chest feels all tight from the flem- & there is nothing i can take- UGGGG!!!
other then hot tea & Riccola's -
any other suggestions would be helpful
have a good weekend-