Log In Sign Up

Thoughts and Prayers...please. Warning, death mentioned.


Forum: May 2012 Playroom

Notices

Welcome to the JustMommies Message Boards.

We pride ourselves on having the friendliest and most welcoming forums for moms and moms to be! Please take a moment and register for free so you can be a part of our growing community of mothers. If you have any problems registering please drop an email to boards@justmommies.com.

Our community is moderated by our moderation team so you won't see spam or offensive messages posted on our forums. Each of our message boards is hosted by JustMommies hosts, whose names are listed at the top each board. We hope you find our message boards friendly, helpful, and fun to be on!

Reply Post New Topic
  Subscribe To May 2012 Playroom LinkBack Topic Tools Search this Topic Display Modes
  #1  
January 7th, 2012, 05:20 AM
.:fearless:.'s Avatar Platinum Supermommy
Join Date: Sep 2007
Location: ohio
Posts: 11,295
So, this morning at 3:30 by daughters daddy passed away. Friday they had taken him off his vent and feeding tube. I haven't got to tell her yet, as she wanted to stay with my sister last night. At this point I really don't know what else to say. My heart hurts for her so very badly.
__________________
Ethan Michael 6*13*2000, Toryn Elizabeth 6*18*04, Julian Alexander 2*8*08, Jaxson Lea 5*4*12
Married to my best friend since 3*26*12
Reply With Quote
  #2  
January 7th, 2012, 05:37 AM
I could not ask for more.
Join Date: Jul 2008
Location: GA
Posts: 8,162
I'm so sorry. What a horrible thing to have to tell her... I hope she takes the news as well as possible. Hugs!
__________________









Reply With Quote
  #3  
January 7th, 2012, 05:42 AM
beautyexists72's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
Join Date: Aug 2011
Posts: 1,163
I am so so sorry, love. Saying prayers. for you and your family.
__________________
Mommy to Chance (4.24.12) expecting # 2! (1.15.14)



Reply With Quote
  #4  
January 7th, 2012, 05:54 AM
muffin300's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
Join Date: Feb 2009
Posts: 2,455
I am so sorry. my prayers go out to her.
__________________




Reply With Quote
  #5  
January 7th, 2012, 06:17 AM
JsBaby's Avatar Super Mommy
Join Date: Sep 2011
Location: Nebraska
Posts: 728
So Sorry to hear the news! I have a 7 year old and I can't imagine having to tell her. My heart breaks for you, Toryn and the rest of the family. Praying you will find peace and comfort soon. **hugs**
__________________
Reply With Quote
  #6  
January 7th, 2012, 06:35 AM
lindsey2000k's Avatar Platinum Supermommy
Join Date: Nov 2010
Location: Ohio
Posts: 5,965
Send a message via Yahoo to lindsey2000k
I am so sorry
__________________




http://lindseysphotography.com/
Reply With Quote
  #7  
January 7th, 2012, 06:42 AM
imdawn's Avatar Super Mommy
Join Date: Dec 2011
Location: Southwest Missouri
Posts: 669
I'm so sorry
__________________
Dawn
Mommy to Jake (2009) and Jax (2012)

Reply With Quote
  #8  
January 7th, 2012, 07:01 AM
Mega Super Mommy
Join Date: Apr 2011
Posts: 1,833
prayers and ((((HUGS)))) if you need me, im olny a pm away!
__________________
Life is not measured by the number of breaths you take,
but by the moments that take your breath away!

Momma to
DD-15, DD-11, DD-7, DD-2 &
baby girl born December 20, 2014

Reply With Quote
  #9  
January 7th, 2012, 07:03 AM
KaiyaRae'sMomma's Avatar Forever missing Kaiya Rae
Join Date: Jul 2009
Posts: 2,840
prayers for peace for your daughter and family.
__________________



Thank you Alethia for my siggy!


Read my blog: www.grievingmomma.wordpress.com
Reply With Quote
  #10  
January 7th, 2012, 08:05 AM
lunarmagic's Avatar Platinum Supermommy
Join Date: Sep 2006
Location: MA
Posts: 4,037
I am so very sorry. I wish your daughter comfort.
__________________



2 IVF babies and 1 surprise!
~*~ My Blog ~*~
Reply With Quote
  #11  
January 7th, 2012, 08:26 AM
rmarie9509's Avatar Liam's Mommy
Join Date: Oct 2010
Location: New York State
Posts: 3,192
Send a message via AIM to rmarie9509 Send a message via Skype™ to rmarie9509
Im so sorry you all have to go through that. I would just be as honest with her as possible, kids that age are alot smarter than we give them credit sometimes, and they know when we arent telling them the truth so they try to fil in the blanks themselves which can be worse for them than just knowing the truth. She did know he was sick if I remember right, so she probably knew this was coming even if noone told her. And just make sure you preserve the good memories they have together and never talk bad about him which it seems like you have been doing. I would suggest in a week or 2 having a girls day with just the two of you and helping her make a "life book" of her and her dad. A lifebook is something we trained for in fostercare class, its basically a scrapbook in honor of where you came from, I think it would apply here because no matter the circumstances adoption vs death, she just lost her daddy. You can look up ideas and examples online.
__________________




Reply With Quote
  #12  
January 7th, 2012, 09:25 AM
Raven_Haired_Mama's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
Join Date: Jul 2011
Posts: 2,245
I have been wondering how he was doing. I'm so sorry to hear he passed. Your family will be in my thoughts.
__________________

Thanks PrincessMom08 for my wonderful siggy!
Reply With Quote
  #13  
January 7th, 2012, 10:47 AM
maggzies's Avatar Veteran
Join Date: Sep 2011
Location: Arkansas
Posts: 330
Wishing you luck through this sad time, your family is in my thoughts.
__________________
Waiting for my Ollie Luc.

Reply With Quote
  #14  
January 7th, 2012, 11:30 AM
Platinum Supermommy
Join Date: Dec 2007
Location: Bay Area CA
Posts: 19,074
I'm so sorry Praying for her and for you.
__________________

Reply With Quote
  #15  
January 7th, 2012, 11:39 AM
*Jillian*'s Avatar Baby #3 on the way
Join Date: Jan 2007
Location: Alabama
Posts: 11,296
I'm so incredibly sorry for your daughter I lost a parent and 23 and that is hard enough...I will keep her in my thoughts and hope she has strength and support to deal with her loss.
__________________

















Reply With Quote
  #16  
January 7th, 2012, 11:56 AM
StaceygirlPa's Avatar Waiting for our Miracle.
Join Date: Jul 2010
Location: Clarence, Pa
Posts: 5,106
Send a message via AIM to StaceygirlPa
I am so sorry.
Reply With Quote
  #17  
January 7th, 2012, 01:13 PM
aka shawna
Join Date: Aug 2011
Posts: 1,805
i'm so sorry.
Reply With Quote
  #18  
January 7th, 2012, 05:04 PM
PIP's Avatar
PIP PIP is offline
Super Mommy
Join Date: Aug 2010
Location: MILWAUKEE
Posts: 721
I'm sorry too. I know you'll find the an appropriate delicate way to tell her, it's her reaction to his death that may be difficult. Maybe not the day you tell her or maybe in the days following it will get harder for her. You just never know how children will cope with losing someone they love. Keep us posted.
__________________
Reply With Quote
  #19  
January 7th, 2012, 05:38 PM
~Always~Hoping~'s Avatar Mega Super Mommy
Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: The Northeast
Posts: 1,022
Im so sorry to hear that! I can't imagine how tough it will be to tell her!
__________________












Reply With Quote
  #20  
January 7th, 2012, 05:44 PM
melissalaw's Avatar Platinum Supermommy
Join Date: Mar 2011
Location: Tennessee
Posts: 14,105
I am so sorry to hear this. I'm praying for you and your daughter.
__________________

Thank you *Kiliki* for my beautiful siggy
Reply With Quote
Reply

Topic Tools Search this Topic
Search this Topic:

Advanced Search
Display Modes

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are Off
Pingbacks are Off
Refbacks are Off



All times are GMT -7. The time now is 12:46 PM.



Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.7
Copyright ©2000 - 2014, vBulletin Solutions, Inc.
Search Engine Optimization by vBSEO 3.6.0