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  #1  
February 17th, 2012, 12:45 PM
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Okay ladies. I have a question.

Usually when I have sex when I'm not pregnant, I like to choose positions where I get clitoral stimulation without having to use my hands to do it (the exception to this are all positions from behind, of course). Well, being pregnant I can't do these positions anymore. And I also can't reach the are myself that comfortably. So now what the heck do I do!? I could forego stimulation there I suppose, but that seems stupid Do I have my DH do it? We haven't tried that since we first got together 8 years ago. I just took it upon myself since you know how guys are. They get all distracted with their own pleasures, and they aren't great at multitasking anyways. So then the rhythms get off and I get frustrated ... or maybe that's just us LOL. Or should I have him use a vibe there during sex instead?

This is an important question because I do not want to go overdue if I can help it, and they say lots and lots of sex can bring on labor so I had better be enjoying some part of it to give me incentive to do it at all. I already have to get past my vagina swelling to the size of a basketball, I had better be getting those out of this world preggo orgasms to make up for it!!

And what positions do you all use anyhow? The only ones so far I like are girl on top or doggy. And doggy just doesn't feel right without stimulating the lady button. Maybe I need to train my DH better? I never did in this area, I admit since it only cropped up as a problem when pregnant.

You know, hehe, if I could get him to be able to pat his head and rub his belly without faltering while giving him a BJ, that would be the only training he'd need! I think everyone should do that with their DH and then report your findings here, Hahahaha! I wonder if any man could do that.
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February 17th, 2012, 01:21 PM
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We often use a side by side position where I sort of scissor my legs between his. I can get to myself easier.
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February 17th, 2012, 01:25 PM
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I wont be much help, since i rarely get off from sex, but DH does get the job done during foreplay. So usually by the time we have sex, its his turn for the fun, lol.

I would say a vibrator would be your best bet and may even make things a little fun for a while. Would the extra length of a vibrator make it easier to use for yourself?

LOL, and i just wanted to add, that this seems like a topic that would come up in chat, haha
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February 17th, 2012, 01:32 PM
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Totally love my little bullet sized vibe that rests there during sex with a remote in my hand for slower or faster vibe.. Works every. single. time. Order one!
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February 17th, 2012, 01:33 PM
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I'm just glad I got some responses! I never make it to chat, and the private forum is dead.

Taking note of side by side leg scissoring position.
I am too impatient for extended foreplay! I'm usually like, ok that was great now let's get to it! *insert porn music*

Wait a minute, they make remotes for vibes!? Wow I am clueless! That sounds interesting!
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February 17th, 2012, 01:38 PM
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I love TMI. Hmmm. I can have an orgasm from internal stimulation so this is a good question I might not be much help with, I gotta go with Maggie's answer and just use a bullet or some form of that.

The bullet is a great investment
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February 17th, 2012, 01:42 PM
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I orgasm from internal too, but I am greedy and like to get both at once. And the swelling pain is too much without a distraction.Can't believe I don't have a bullet and didn't know they came with remotes. That sounds awesome.
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February 17th, 2012, 02:20 PM
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Right now, I'm liking lying on my back on the bed with my feet down on the floor and DH is standing. I can get to everything still and he's not all on the belly. Reverse cowgirl still works well too. I don't like traditional girl on top while pregnant because I feel like my belly is bouncing around in his face But reverse is fine. I'm greedy like you and I get cranky if I don't get off both ways Plus, I can have multiple clitoral ones during sex and then a delightful internal one, so it's like more "bang" for my buck
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February 17th, 2012, 02:23 PM
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in general I go with Dream2bemommies route. because i rarely O with internal :/ . but sounds like the bullet idea is a good one for sure(takes note). as far as positions go I am really running out. I am pretty much already bigger than I was at delivery with DS so I didn't run into these problems last time. the side scissor legs definitely seems to be easier than most right now though. that or off the side of the bed, DH stands up and all I have to do is lay there lol works pretty well in my whale like state.
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February 17th, 2012, 02:25 PM
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My belly is starting to get in the way... But I like missionary with my remote controlled bullet between us. Bullets are great!!!!
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February 17th, 2012, 02:26 PM
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Sex is so.uncomfortable for me right now. On top I cramp but laying on my back makes my chest hurt but when on my back he'll just reach down every so often and play.

Today after sex I.got.so.swollen it was painful. I squatted down.and thought baby was going tto pop out.
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February 17th, 2012, 02:27 PM
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Hm..we haven't pulled that box out in awhile. Pureromance.com is a great source for fun gifts/toys for mommies. I am thinking about using some of these ideas...I usually get mine during foreplay as well; this may be a nice change.
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February 17th, 2012, 02:42 PM
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I like this thread!

We are not having sex at all, so nothing doing for us right now, MW orders....

I think you should get that bullet though!
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February 17th, 2012, 02:53 PM
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I absolutely thrilled to be apart of sex conversations without frustration setting in for me. I just wanted to make that be known.
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February 17th, 2012, 02:53 PM
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.....I think my DH would get offended if I suggested a vibrator....like I was saying he isn't good enough...but he can't vibrate..hmmm
did any of your SO care?
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February 17th, 2012, 02:54 PM
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After years of not getting off during sex i've become something of a pro with alternative methods. The best was i've found is a bullet (type of contraption) as well. This has helped me with both external & internal orgasms. I have to find that one with the remote though, sounds right up my alley.
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February 17th, 2012, 02:55 PM
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.....I think my DH would get offended if I suggested a vibrator....like I was saying he isn't good enough...but he can't vibrate..hmmm
did any of your SO care?
Mine doesn't care at all. In fact he encourages things that make me feel good. He's pretty open to everything and doesn't feel threatened at all. It's all about having fun with it.
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February 17th, 2012, 03:02 PM
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My DH has always encouraged me to get some, but I just never got around to it. He knows that the more "play" I have, the more I am in the mood to get jiggy with him.

We need a link to a remote operated bullet!
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February 17th, 2012, 03:02 PM
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.....I think my DH would get offended if I suggested a vibrator....like I was saying he isn't good enough...but he can't vibrate..hmmm
did any of your SO care?
My DH buys them for me, he's more of a freak in bed than I am.
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February 17th, 2012, 03:04 PM
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Ok pregnant sex is not working out for me at all...no matter what position it hurts somewhere and I can't do it. But in general, I very RARELY hit the big O with out clitoral stimulation. I hate doing it myself lol, with my fingers, it's like weird, lol. So I use a bullet :-) If you are a big fan of clitoral stim and don't own a bullet, BUY ONE! NOW!!! If the problem is reaching the area, have DH hold the bullet. For the most part, once he gets it in the general right spot, all he has to do is keep it there

Also, DH encourages me to use toys, he's the one that buys them for me also
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