Thanks so much ladies! The info I found at Breath-holding Spells | epilepsy.com
sounds right like it, (& right like dd1) . I just didn't know it could happen so young! It makes me feel like he could possibly get brain damage from it!??
We're pretty sure he has a milk allergy. He had blood in his stool. So I stopped drinking milk (wasn't real picky with other stuff that had milk in it) The blood went away, but now he's still getting these screaming tantrums, so I guess I gotta crack down and cut everything out!! It's in basically everything.

I did it b4 with dd2, so I can do it again... right?

sigh