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December 11th, 2011, 07:16 AM
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This may be TMI ( SORRY GIRLS IF IT IS LOL )

While preggo on #1, I lost my sex drive completely!

and now it seems my sex drive is completely gone! I have NO interest at all or even want to be at it!! I just do it for hubby.. he gets upset when i tell him i have no sex drive,,, he doesn't understand!! ...

anyone else like me?????
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December 11th, 2011, 07:52 AM
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well I have no sex drive for once in my life!!!!! LOL!!! but even if i did, the SO of mine wouldnt touch me, it just plain freaks him out!!!!!( now that im pregnant!!!)
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December 11th, 2011, 10:30 AM
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Same here. It's GONE. Not only that but it's uncomfortable.
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December 11th, 2011, 11:55 AM
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It's gone.... I do a lot of faking it so DH doesn't feel guilty... He doesn't like doing the deed when I'm not into it... If I didn't fake it, he'd never get any LOL...


I am pretty much this way my entire pregnancy and fro awhile afterwards... It sucks...
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December 11th, 2011, 04:17 PM
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Mine is the same or I want it more! lol. Usually I don't lose the sex drive till the end of pregnancy and even then I'll just let him go for it....
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December 11th, 2011, 05:11 PM
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Mine has increased. But my energy has decreased! Such a catch 22!
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December 11th, 2011, 06:05 PM
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Mine has increased. But my energy has decreased! Such a catch 22!
With Illeanna I wanted it more than ever...with Athena I wanted nothing so ex SO went without for 10 months. With kalista he went without for a year. Now I want it as much or more than normal. SO isn't complaining though LOL.
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December 11th, 2011, 06:13 PM
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Mine seems the same but DH is so nervous! He's so afraid of hurting something.
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December 11th, 2011, 07:58 PM
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I have none.....and im usually pretty randy lol....

so not much action here, and hubby understands, he would never try if i didn't wanted to...and im to miserable to fake it..lmao!
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December 11th, 2011, 09:53 PM
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increased. Dh and I just had a conversation about increasing it bc I need it. He joked that he didn't want to get me pregnant. lol
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December 12th, 2011, 04:05 AM
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Mine definitely increases! I pretty much always could go at it at least a couple times a week though. It was gone for past couple of weeks but it is making a comeback now it seems
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December 12th, 2011, 06:40 AM
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I feel ya. I've had a up and down sex drive for YEARS. I go through spouts even when I'm not preggo where I really could go months without sex and it wouldn't even phase me one bit. Hubs doesn't understand it and it does cause fights. Lately I went from having an amazing drive for the past 4 months and then it just went away when I was around 5 weeks preggo and it's still gone I don't even bother telling him it's not there right now because I just don't want to handle the fight and seeing him struggle with the fact that he can't "fix" it.
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December 12th, 2011, 09:52 AM
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I had an incredible sex drive prior to DD, I would have classified myself as a sex fien... easily! When I got pregnant with DD it went away and it never came back! DH and I joked that maybe getting pregnant again would "reverse it". So far, no luck. I hate it!!
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