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I've been nervous that my family or friends will guess i'm pregnant before i tell them! My boobs have been noticably bigger and stomach bloated. Maybe they'll just think i'm gaining weight? haha. Not to mention i've been extremely irritable and exhausted. I want them to be surprised when i tell them and not say "oh yeah we knew" ya know? Am i the only one worried about this?
I'm not worried about that at all. I don't understand why it would matter if they "suspected."
TBH, with each of my two kids, my brother-in-law guessed that I was pregnant..no, actually, he INSISTED that I was...and I hadn't even told my HUSBAND yet. Haha. Some people just have the pregnant radar I guess.
I don't know, i guess i just like to surprise them! With my son my family was so shocked their expressions were priceless. They didn't have a clue. I suppose i think it would be great to surprise them again. I dunno, maybe i'm alone in feeling like this. I did end up telling a couple friends today but i trust they won't tell anyone. I want to wait a bit to tell the family.
I guess this was just a silly topic.. ignore then...
I do not think it is silly! My breast are much bigger and I am definately bloated. I do not want people at work guessing/knowing until I am ready for them to know. I have a feeling that I will have to get over it though. I share an office with another women who I am sure is going to pick up on it right away. Our office is closed for Christmas. We go back after Jan 2nd. So she isn't even going to see the gradual progression. It's just going to be BAM big boobs. I could hide it better if I didn't wear a swim suit some of the time lol!
When you look at yourself in the mirror, and you say WOA I look different, I would tell them (so you may stilll have the element of surprise) OR not be upset if they suspect.