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Ami, I really am soooo very sorry for you and the hurt and disappointment you're feeling right now. Not only the disappointment of thinking you'd know something for sure and not getting anything more than a guess, but also that the guess is another boy. (((hugs))) I really am here if you need to talk or vent. I wish there was more I could do for you! If I were closer, I'd totally take your boys off your hands and let you have some time to yourself to work through your emotions, rest, and recover emotionally and physically from the past couple of days.
*~*~ Katie; Mommy to 3 fun-loving boys, one sweet little baby girl, and #5 on the way! *~*~
I'm sorry this is a hard adjustment for you, but that does NOT make you a bad mom. After DD1 was born, I couldn't even call her by her name for weeks- it seemed like I was talking about someone else! It's fine to take some time to get used to the idea, and every feeling that you are having now is ok. Sending you hugs!
Ami, I'm so sorry! Not only at the "boy" guesstimate, but also that you don't really have a good answer! I hope they have give you a 100% answer next time you go in so you aren't feeling so in limbo...
Regardless of what answer you get, I just hope you can deal with your emotions sooner than later! We are all here for you and support you! ((hugs))!!
I got back toward the end of may. I'm not sure the exact date - I think the 23rd maybe...
I just went through all the crap I have been carting around for the last 13 years to give to my daughter. I'm not sure if I am going to chuck it just yet. But at least I know where it is, so I can throw it away.
Missing Our Angels gone too soon 6/5/10 & 3/1/14 Adam Michael 9/22/06 (c-section)~Nathan Joseph 9/4/08 (VBAC)~Lincoln Thomas 9/5/12 (VBAC)