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April 26th, 2012, 06:19 AM
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I feel awful. but it is still an it to me.
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April 26th, 2012, 06:25 AM
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Ami, I really am soooo very sorry for you and the hurt and disappointment you're feeling right now. Not only the disappointment of thinking you'd know something for sure and not getting anything more than a guess, but also that the guess is another boy. (((hugs))) I really am here if you need to talk or vent. I wish there was more I could do for you! If I were closer, I'd totally take your boys off your hands and let you have some time to yourself to work through your emotions, rest, and recover emotionally and physically from the past couple of days.
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April 26th, 2012, 06:50 AM
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I'm sorry this is a hard adjustment for you, but that does NOT make you a bad mom. After DD1 was born, I couldn't even call her by her name for weeks- it seemed like I was talking about someone else! It's fine to take some time to get used to the idea, and every feeling that you are having now is ok. Sending you hugs!
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April 26th, 2012, 06:55 AM
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It's gonna be okay. We're here for you sweetie. *hugs*
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April 26th, 2012, 07:00 AM
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I'm really sorry you are feeling so disappointed. I think it's a very good thing you found out now so you have time to process all these emotions before the baby arrives.
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April 26th, 2012, 07:05 AM
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I'm so sorry Ami I would say you are basically Team Green this time around. Not by choice, but by circumstance. I really hope at your next u/s you can get some clear images with some 99% sure results.

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April 26th, 2012, 07:18 AM
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I just can't seem to get past his arbitrary 80%.

like why would he bet money, but not pain color? which do you stand to loose more on?

Maybe I still have a 50/50 shot. that is what DH keeps telling me, he was not convinced it was a boy.

He did show up cord in one picture. I don't know how you can mistake that for something else, or the other way around. I kinda wish he said he couldn't give me a good guess.

I do have this overwhelming desire to go into the garage and throw away all my old "my little ponies" barbies and stuffed animals that I was hanging on to, to give to my daughter..

I'm sure DH would like the space freed up.
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April 26th, 2012, 07:36 AM
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Ami, I'm so sorry! Not only at the "boy" guesstimate, but also that you don't really have a good answer! I hope they have give you a 100% answer next time you go in so you aren't feeling so in limbo...

Regardless of what answer you get, I just hope you can deal with your emotions sooner than later! We are all here for you and support you! ((hugs))!!
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April 26th, 2012, 08:00 AM
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April 26th, 2012, 09:52 AM
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How long until you get to go back?

I am still holding out hope that there's no little penis in there
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April 26th, 2012, 10:22 AM
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I got back toward the end of may. I'm not sure the exact date - I think the 23rd maybe...

I just went through all the crap I have been carting around for the last 13 years to give to my daughter. I'm not sure if I am going to chuck it just yet. But at least I know where it is, so I can throw it away.
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