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May 8th, 2012, 10:13 AM
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So I was wondering who here is stil having sex? Or any kind of sexual activity? I still am but afterwards my nerves are bad b/c I worry I am gonna hurt the baby! I try not to let it stress me but I guess it's just one of those things......
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May 8th, 2012, 10:28 AM
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I have 0 sex drive right now, so we have sex maybe once a week (twice if DH is really lucky).

I don't have him be on top because it pushes down on my uterus and is really uncomfortable for me. I know it won't hurt the baby, but we resort to our "go to" move of side of the bed and that works for us
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May 8th, 2012, 10:35 AM
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Yes I never let him on top one it does not feel good and two I just don't think it's very sexy right now! lol We do the lay down on our sides move right now that seems to work most times.
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May 8th, 2012, 12:10 PM
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I am but sex has become very uncomfortable and at times painful for me so we keep it down to a minimum I know it won't hurt the baby but it is sure uncomfortable for me.
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May 8th, 2012, 12:52 PM
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Not a snowballs chance..LOL...I havent since I found out I was pregnant..Just not into it!
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May 8th, 2012, 01:11 PM
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Well I want to keep my hubby feeling loved so we do it about 2 times a week but he always puts my feelings about it first.
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May 8th, 2012, 01:30 PM
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We do, maaaybe once a week. I'm really not feeling it, and it's so uncomfy lately. I prefer to be on top, I feel I can "control" things better that way.
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May 8th, 2012, 01:37 PM
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With ds dh couldn't do it anymore after 5 months, he was scared to hurt ds. Now that he has learned I'm a ***** when I get nothing we oars still active. Side and sometimes on top but off my belly. I feel really bad because the last time I ran out of energy in the middle of it and he had to do ll the work near the end.

Pregnancy sex is awesome, everything feels 10x stronger nd more sensitive.
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May 8th, 2012, 01:50 PM
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Well I'm in England and my husband is in Germany for six weeks, so... sadly no
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May 8th, 2012, 01:53 PM
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Well I'm in England and my husband is in Germany for six weeks, so... sadly no
Oh no I am sorry I think now I remember reading that in one of your post.... Somebody else at one time said their hubby was out of town and had to resort to toys! lol
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May 8th, 2012, 02:13 PM
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I'm out of state until after the baby is born so no nookie for us. My drive has always been the same. ALWAYS! Husband doesn't know how lucky he is. He's the one with the low drive, pfff. Wish it was the other way around.
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May 8th, 2012, 04:35 PM
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We are still at it lol. My sex drive is pretty good this time around. I tend to be the one on top.
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May 8th, 2012, 04:53 PM
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I have a very low drive now, and it is really uncomfortable and painful for me. I "finish" way too quickly when I am on top, then it dries me up and doesn't feel good, so I don't like it on top! But now, BD is squishing me when he is on top, so we may have to try the side by side thing...but I always feel like we look awkward, like the girl in the movie Bridesmaids. ha ha
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May 8th, 2012, 05:10 PM
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I have a very low drive now, and it is really uncomfortable and painful for me. I "finish" way too quickly when I am on top, then it dries me up and doesn't feel good, so I don't like it on top! But now, BD is squishing me when he is on top, so we may have to try the side by side thing...but I always feel like we look awkward, like the girl in the movie Bridesmaids. ha ha

LOL the bridesmaids comment cracked me up!!! Yes I love the top when I am not pregnant but the sideways thing feels good and works out great for now!!!
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May 8th, 2012, 05:18 PM
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LOL the bridesmaids comment cracked me up!!! Yes I love the top when I am not pregnant but the sideways thing feels good and works out great for now!!!
Yeah, we have mainly been resorting to other methods rather than sex...but my nurse said to try different positions. I am just not into that- I think I psyche myself out, knowing it'll hurt...so it does. ha ha, too bad I can't have a drink to loosen me up
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May 8th, 2012, 05:44 PM
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Yeah, we have mainly been resorting to other methods rather than sex...but my nurse said to try different positions. I am just not into that- I think I psyche myself out, knowing it'll hurt...so it does. ha ha, too bad I can't have a drink to loosen me up
I do that too I am like oh this is gonna hurt so then it does!! : My hubby starts to feel bad thinking I am not being taken care of so the other day it was lay down you do not have a choice of course not to have sex but just I guess to be loved on..... Bless his heart!
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May 8th, 2012, 05:55 PM
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Yeah, we have mainly been resorting to other methods rather than sex...but my nurse said to try different positions. I am just not into that- I think I psyche myself out, knowing it'll hurt...so it does. ha ha, too bad I can't have a drink to loosen me up
Well, so will labor. Sex is not about thinking. It's about enjoying. Turn those brains OFF! :g iggle:
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May 8th, 2012, 07:04 PM
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We are, but DH is gone during the week working about 4 hours away so its only on the weekends.
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May 8th, 2012, 09:53 PM
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I want but hubby is on a new medication that has pretty much eliminated any drive he has.
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May 9th, 2012, 05:20 AM
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We still are, but not often. We didn't much in my first pregnancy because i was nervous. I'm a little more relaxed this time.
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