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August 19th, 2012, 08:38 PM
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Talked to the hubs today about possibly TTC one last time for a girl, or at least leaving that option open. He is adamantly against adoption (long story there, but I understand why he is), but I didn't even have to mention gender swaying, he did!! I'm not sure if I will be up for it, but I feel better knowing that we could do one more sway for a girl. Anyway, I'm excited about the possibility of trying for a girl.
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August 19th, 2012, 09:17 PM
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Awww... Awesome!!! Sooo excited for you sweetie
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August 19th, 2012, 09:22 PM
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I feel so much better talking to him about it. I wish I would have sooner, but I just kept waiting for it to go away. Instead it got worse. Anyway, I really do NOT want to get pregnant again, and would love to adopt, but he is adamantly against it...

I feel like I am now free to enjoy the little boy I have and I can stop obsessing so much about a little girl (or morning the loss of one I didn't have).
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August 19th, 2012, 11:04 PM
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I will be posting my sway here for you Jamie.
It didnt work, just so you know there is a chance it may not work so you should prep for the possibility of another boy just incase, but being you have girls you should be ok that the sway should work. Id say do the whole plan for a few months then attempt.
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August 19th, 2012, 11:14 PM
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SWAY, but left these out of my attempt....I copied it off of another forum Im on, this is my attempt as I wrote it out befor I got my BFP.

do add in a douche on attempt, will relook that up I cant remember how to go abouts with that now. Its a lime douche.
Sudafed day befor and day of attempt to dry up cm, as cm attracts boy sperm! I didnt do the sudafed as not having cm really messed with my mind, I thought the lime would help, hmm
CL is CRYSTAL LIGHT, a drink you pretty much ONLY drink.
Breastfeeding SWAYS GIRL I think!



Name: mommy2lilmen
Children: 6
my PH : at time of O my cm would jump all around it upset me..between 4.5-6.5
DH PH : about a 7
Replens : up till 3 days befor o
Big O : No
Douche and type: lime

SUPPLEMENTS
Me**

Calcium Citrate : 1200mg (4 chewables)
Magnesium: 300mg
Cranberry: 1 capsule/day increased to 2 week befor ovulation and then I would take up to 4 a day 2 days befor ovulation and day of
Vitamin C: 1 tablet/day (500mg)
Folic Acid:1 tablet/day (1 mg)
sudafed: none
Baby Aspirin:none

DH**

Calcium Citrate :1200mg (4 chewables)
magnesium : 300mg
Cranberry: 1 capsule/day (increased to 2 2 weeks befor ovulation as his ph was almost at an 8.5 prior)
Vitamin C:1 tablet/day (500mg)
Licorice Root: 450mg x 1/day (from my af to my ov)

Girl diet as IG has it for me and DH (dh may do it loosely)
Low Sodium Low Potassium High Calcium (about 3 cups of milk) Cut back on protein and caffeine
Me, eliminate caffeine, drink lots of CL (6 plus packets) ,will use equal to sweeten my cereal milk etc,
Diet drinks (about 2 cans or cups), DH to, Plan to eat lots of cucumbers and white rice also, Lessen stresss

ATTEMPT

positive opk on cd 19 at 12am..but my ph didnt go any higher than 6.5...so to me thas a good thing considering it had went up to like a 8 befor.. I kept popping
cranberry pills and drinking crystal light. (I even increased DH cranberry and calcium to cus his phs wouldnt go lower than
like an 8-9, but went down to 7 with licorice root to) cd 20, more positive opk...and I noticed severe cramping..so to me
that signalled ovulation, as per previous months. I was very excited...The cramps subsided around early morning cd 20 and I knew that was the
day it was ovulation day I went and done an opk and negative by lunch time on cd 20..My surge from start to finish lasted 30 hours...I started
to drip out fluids so I started to panic as my ph went up again to 6.5 so started to get upset..but i was like ok. But I did manage to get it down to about a 5 at some points with the cranberry and CL. I couldnt get dry dry with anything but a bath!
I went to almost creamy, so we dtd even with a bit of ewcm and a drop of lime. . we dtd, not with a diva cup like planned but thats ok.
I laid down for a bit, about few minutes, then jump and dump and inserted lime .

TIMING

BD cut off (# of days) : 8 days
BD thru O: no
O+12: yes
Frequent BD/How many days:0
Charting O with temps:Yes
Charting O with OPK:yes
Fertility Monitor used/Type: saliva scope
Suspected O Date: November 5

IONS

Oed in what moon:
Changed Ions in other ways: Lavender(candles, baths, and powder or spray), fan, polish and remover

OTHER

How many kids do you have:6
What genders: BOYS
# of months TTC : 2 (ive been charing befor tho)
Your age: 34
BD Position: Missionary (if remember in the heat of the moment)
Jump and Dump: yes
EWCM Present/how much?: yes, but i couldnt get rid of it until after the cramps went away.
DH Undies: Boxer briefs
DH hot bath/shower? Yes and me included
OWT anything under the bed?: SET headband and socks, onesie, soother and a prayer
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Sean 16, Justin 13, Kevin 11, Jayson 10, Bryce 4, Seth 3 & Kade 1
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Blessed with 1 Autistic and 1 Down Syndrome child
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Alyssa Marie Jade
September 1, 2013 @ 11:01pm 6lb 8oz & 18.5in
Emerg C Sec, Down Syndrome blessing, AVSD, Hirschsprungs, G tube
58 day NICU stay, Sept 1- Oct 29 2013





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August 20th, 2012, 01:37 PM
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Ooooh! Didn't know that about bfing.
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August 20th, 2012, 02:39 PM
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MOST women dont get a cycle while breastfeeding so you may want to wean to get your body starting to gear up I guess, IDK how that goes on that. but breastfeeding makes you dry and unable to produce cm.. which I am able to produce ewcm no matter when and IT SUCKS for a sway.
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Mommy to 7 boys and 1 girl!
Sean 16, Justin 13, Kevin 11, Jayson 10, Bryce 4, Seth 3 & Kade 1
4 babies 94,95,99, 08~TL April 2003 & Sept 2013 TR May 2008

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Blessed with 1 Autistic and 1 Down Syndrome child
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Alyssa Marie Jade
September 1, 2013 @ 11:01pm 6lb 8oz & 18.5in
Emerg C Sec, Down Syndrome blessing, AVSD, Hirschsprungs, G tube
58 day NICU stay, Sept 1- Oct 29 2013





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August 20th, 2012, 06:04 PM
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I got PG when BFing #1. Oliver was the only one I disn't get a true period back until 11.5 mo. The first 3 I started cycles again @ 3-4 mo PP, I think I will with George too. I'm starting to get patches of EWCM again.
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August 21st, 2012, 10:12 PM
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How exciting I hope you get your next girl! You deserve it
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