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August 31st, 2012, 11:41 AM
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OK, this is super weird for me, but lately I'm feeling super sexy, lol. My husband has been talking about how he can't wait to have sex again and keeps talking about how he loves these beginning days of breastfeeding because my boobs are out all the time, hahaha. It's REALLY unlike my husband to say things like that. He has the lamest sex drive of any man I know. I also got a message on facebook from an ex recently and he wanted to tell me how amazing I look and that motherhood suits me. My husband's friends have made comments too about how I get better looking with every pregnancy. I am just GLOWING from all of the compliments! And my husband is doing such a wonderful job caring for me and caring for the kids. Whenever he is snuggling the baby, it's like mommy porn, hahaha. I was NOT like this after I had my last baby. We were so sleep deprived from having a colicky baby that we didn't have sex but once for the first 6 months, and probably only about 5 times in that first year (we made up for it the year after that, hence my current baby, haha). Anyhow... I'm looking forward to sexy time. We didn't do a lot of sexy time when I was pregnant because I was a pretty cranky "B" with an" itch" for a while there. I'm stoked for enjoying the perks of living with this dude. Counting down the days...
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August 31st, 2012, 11:52 AM
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Yay for lots of compliments! Pregnancy obviously suits you.

I think it's awesome you and your DH can't wait to get going again. It took me forever to even let DH near me that way after DD was born, and we didn't do it very often. I'm hoping it won't be like that this time. But we're making up for it now because we're trying the natural induction technique.
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August 31st, 2012, 12:00 PM
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I REALLY want to have sex. But I'm not allowed to for 6 weeks and even if I was, I doubt I could, I'm too sore.
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August 31st, 2012, 12:42 PM
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whoot!!!

I'm so ready for happy fun time but I don't think my girl parts are quite ready for friction. Hooray for vibrators.
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August 31st, 2012, 02:09 PM
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Yay for feeling sexy!

I am feeling pretty good that way. Rich seems super manly after I have been holding a baby all day.
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August 31st, 2012, 02:39 PM
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No! I feel fine but just no. I'm not interested at all. My sex drive drove away.
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August 31st, 2012, 03:02 PM
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oh i cant wait to get the all clear from the doctor - i want to celebrate our engagement properly!
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August 31st, 2012, 03:22 PM
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My 6 weeks is up on Monday but I'm not seeing the OB until 7 weeks. I know DH is going crazy but I don't know if I'm really ready yet. A part of me is but a part of me isn't. I'm kinda feeling good about myself cause everyone is marveling at how great I look after having a baby. It's awesome to know I lost all the weight already. But I'm just too tired and DH is still annoying the crap out of me, so I'm not all into him.
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September 1st, 2012, 01:00 AM
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DH is also making all kinds of comments, but I'm not feeling it yet. Breastfeeding, coupled with sleep deprevation has done it for me.
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September 1st, 2012, 05:31 AM
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I am ready and she isnt even 2 weeks old yet lol! I feel great and I know I look good for having just had a baby lol. Gotta wait for clearance though!!
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September 2nd, 2012, 10:21 AM
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I'm already not looking forward to being sex-less and Hannah isn't even here yet
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September 2nd, 2012, 10:27 AM
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I'm on the not interested side, I think its because I've always been super self conscious and while I know I look great for being only 2 weeks pp, I'm not myself and I can't even stand my full length mirror for now.
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September 2nd, 2012, 01:35 PM
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My sex drive never stopped. I'm 5 days PP and my lady parts feel normal. I didn't have any tearing or stitching so I feel pretty good and my bleeding is so super light I could get away with it very soon, until that is, I look in the mirror. I've already lost 20 pounds so everything is saggy and I feel like a circus tent and the stretch marks oh my god! So yea that kind of kills the mood for me
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September 2nd, 2012, 03:36 PM
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I didnt actually make it to my 6 weeks before going back to it. DH and I DTD Friday night, so like 3.5 weeks PP. it was a bit uncomfortable at first but not too bad. I only had a small tear, so it healed pretty easily. Last time was much worse with a second degree tear.
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September 2nd, 2012, 06:00 PM
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David is going nuts and so am I! I'll be 6 weeks post partum on Friday but I won't be seeing my OB until 7 weeks because he is on vacation.
I've had a c-section so I'm really nervous about doing it without the go ahead but gosh, I want action! LOL!
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September 2nd, 2012, 06:09 PM
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I generally wait till my bleeding has stopped. I tend to bleed forever, so the wait is horrible. My midwives gave me some meds that I can take starting next week just in case my bleeding hasn't died down. I want it to be over by 6 weeks PP. Last time I bled for 15 weeks. It was awful. I KNOW I can't go that long again! LOL
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September 3rd, 2012, 02:18 AM
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Lurking from Dec(can't help it with all the beautiful babies!)...my dh has a lame sexdrive also but he LOVES my post-partum body also. We usually can't wait the full 6 weeks lol Hope you get the all-clear asap
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September 3rd, 2012, 02:27 AM
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My DP seems to love my PP body, too. He strokes my tummy and is SO into my boobs even though they're leaking milk everywhere.
Sigh....roll on 6 weeks.
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