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August 31st, 2012, 12:34 PM
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I am SO sick of hearing this! Between my mom and my friends I could scream. They are amazed by how often I nurse... Which I know they don't mean anything by it, but they're constantly pointing it out by saying things like "didn't she just eat" or "she can't be hungry again". UGH!!! Anyone else going through this at all??
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August 31st, 2012, 12:56 PM
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i don't get those comments, but i do notice my little one likes to nurse . i know that when dh is home, he's usually telling me she's hungry pretty often.
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August 31st, 2012, 12:56 PM
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hmmm. no not really. But she only nurses every 2-3 hours. We haven't had any visits last longer than that. Just ignore them. They dont know what your baby needs
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August 31st, 2012, 01:18 PM
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We are never around anyone and don't allow visitors. Pippa eats all night, sometimes 10 times. It's almost constant. She's not pacifying because I hear milk coming out.
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August 31st, 2012, 01:20 PM
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When my MIL was visiting, she said it constantly. She would want to hold him, but he would start fussing, sucking on his hand, smacking his lips, etc. She would say, "You can't be hungry." Or he would spit up and then want to eat, and she would say, "You just spit up because your stomach was so full. You can't be hungry again."

It really irritated me. She had no experience with BF, just FF. So I think that's where her opinion came from. And that she wanted to hold him instead of letting me feed him.

My mom arrives in a week, and I'm sure she'll be of the same opinion.

Every baby is different, and they go through growth spurts at different times. So if he acts hungry, I feed him. Whether it's 30 minutes in between feedings or 3 hours in between feedings. He's the boss. And he fact that he was 10 ounces over his birth weight at his 2-week appointment and that he appears to be up another pound at three weeks (I weighed myself and then held him and weighed this morning) means that I'm doing just fine with the way I feed him.

You're doing a great job, too, mama. And don't let others' opinions sway what you're doing. Summer's a lucky girl.
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August 31st, 2012, 01:40 PM
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I've heard that a lot with both. I comment on it too though so it doesn't really bother me.
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August 31st, 2012, 01:42 PM
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I've heard that a lot with both. I comment on it too though so it doesn't really bother me.
Yeah, sometimes I do think, "Seriously, kid, you want to eat AGAIN!"
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August 31st, 2012, 01:55 PM
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Micah eats A LOT lol. It's like cluster feeding all of the time... He was 6 14 at birth and 6 6 when we left the hospital and yesterday at the peds office he was 9 1 so obviously he is gaining
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August 31st, 2012, 01:57 PM
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YES and it drives me crazy - i feel like like they are judging me for not feeding him for long enough or not nursing him properly. I wish people would think before they speak!
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August 31st, 2012, 02:18 PM
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I get the opposite. I'm sick and tired of people asking me are you sure he's not hungry. The boy is just a bit fussy. Try to comfort him before you automatically toss him in my direction instructing me to feed him. Especially if he just finished eating. Yes, there are times where he's eating every 30 - 90 minutes. But that's usually because he fell asleep eating or didn't nurse long enough at the last feeding.
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Yes. All the time. It drives me nuts.
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September 1st, 2012, 04:24 AM
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Yes, my grandmother actually told me about how her kids did that because she didn't have enough milk. Way to try to freak out a new mama. I know I have enough as I leak 1-2 ounces on the other side while feeding. Ugh, I wish people would keep their opinions to themselves.
Summer's a lucky little girl to have you for a mommy. Just keep feeding her and ignore the comments.
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September 1st, 2012, 04:37 AM
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I get them but by number 4 have learned to ignore them. DH on the other hand always says well she is growing, and point out that bm digest easier than formula so she needs to eat more than formula babies. No one on either side of our families breastfeeds or fed so I think its a lack of experience that makes them ask questions
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September 1st, 2012, 06:42 AM
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I got this with DD all the time and I hated it. I don't like people sticking their noses in my business and telling me what MY baby needs. Ummmm....I think I know my kids just a little bit better than they do.
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