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HI everyone, this is the third due date club I've joined since June. I've had two back to back missed miscarriages in a row and I just got a BFP. To say I am nervous would be putting it mildly. My losses were a little later in the first trimester with no sign that anything was wrong. I even had hyperemesis and was getting sicker and sicker with my last loss.
Anyway, pregnancy doesn't feel quite the same after multiple losses. I am guessing that I'm not the only one here?
You're not. I am also here after back to back m/c. I understand your feelings of being nervous. It's hard to get excited for a pregnancy when you've just been through two that didn't work. I'm nervous that my doctor isn't taking any more betas from me and I have to wait 2.5 more weeks before my u/s. I'm just trying to get through each day thankful that I'm still pregnant. I also am OCD about looking at the tp after I wipe and silently praying "no red!".
Anyway, welcome to the board and I hope this is a realllly sticky bean for you!
Suzanne - mother of Lydia and angel baby Cecilia Fae.
I MC in October of 2010. it was hard and yes, it makes for a more difficult time this time around. Im not unhappy about possibly being pregnant by any means, im justy nervous. IF i am (i havent gotten the BFP yet) then my mind is going through what ifs. its hard. All i know is i dont feel right. My body feels off. BUT... Just trust your body always.
Sorry kinda lurking here from Jan DDC. Just wanted to say I know how you feel. Before this last pregnancy I had two miscarriages in less than 2 years. This pregnancy I was a basket case until I had reached 10 weeks, which was the furthest I had ever gotten. I thought for sure this pregnancy would fail too, but our son will be 2 weeks tomorrow, and he's perfectly healthy. Reason I'm posting is to let you know that you probably will have a H&H pregnancy this time around. Just try your best to relax. I know easier said than done! Taking extra folic acid helped too. Good luck hun and think positive!
MC- Sweet Pea, EDD 10/10/09, left us at 6 weeks. MMC-Baby Peapod, EDD 02/24/2011, left us at 8 weeks.