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February 22nd, 2012, 08:21 AM
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Apparently someone on here works with my MIL and has been asking around if I am the same person and if we are expecting. Here's the problem we aren't telling people yet. Its so early and you all know why and how that goes. Why would someone do that? Why wouldn't someone just private message me and ask if I am that person's DIL? I don't appreciate someone telling my business especially to family members. I never had this problem in my old due date club and I didn't expect that to be a problem here either. I hope whoever it is just comes forward and explains their side of this story but as of now I am considering leaving the group. I just want to be honest about why and let you all know that this happened.

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February 22nd, 2012, 08:24 AM
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Wow.. I am so sorry your news has been shared. It was yours to tell.

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February 22nd, 2012, 08:28 AM
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awwww, that totally stinks Don't leave though!
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February 22nd, 2012, 08:30 AM
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Oh no that is terrible! Maybe they meant no harm in it? That really does suck though. very touchy subject and they should have kept it quiet. It isn't their place to nose around Don't leave us!
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February 22nd, 2012, 08:43 AM
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Don't leave Its pretty crummy that someone would do that, but think of the huge support network you would be leaving, with the exception to that one snitch. I hope all goes well with you.
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February 22nd, 2012, 08:49 AM
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I am sorry someone shared your news. That was your news to share when you wanted to. But maybe that person didn't mean to hurt you. Maybe they were just excited to have someone live so close to them and be pregnant and was hoping to be good friends and have their kids grow up together. I hope they come forward and send you a private message.
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February 22nd, 2012, 08:54 AM
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I am very sorry that your secret was blown, that really sucks. I really hope that whomever did comes forward and you can work it out. I highly encourage that it be done via pm though. Jmho, but this a personal issue and needs to fixed privately and not out in the open.
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February 22nd, 2012, 08:55 AM
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Thanks ladies. I loved my January DDC and I now love my playroom and I thought that this would be the same to have our kids grow together so I don't want to leave but I feel so... I don't know the word. I am just angry but I want to give the person a chance to come forward and explain/apologize. Surely they didn't mean to do it but they should have given it some thought before they did it. Thanks for the support ladies, its nice to know that you all understand why I'm upset.
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February 22nd, 2012, 08:59 AM
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I understand and would want to leave if I was in your shoes, because I wouldn't want my MIL knowing my business. That being said I hope you guys can work it out and I'm sure they probably didn't mean it in a wrong way and hopefully you'll stay
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February 22nd, 2012, 09:00 AM
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So sorry that someone shared your news without your permission. However, for all you know, the person may not even be in this DDC. People lurk on other boards and there is a chance they may just be a lurker. Regardless that was wrong and I am sorry you are going through this. If the person does not step forward, you can always ask your MIL about who it is after you decided to let her know.
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February 22nd, 2012, 09:04 AM
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I think I am just going to leave the board for the day and check back later.. hopefully all this gets worked out...

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February 22nd, 2012, 09:09 AM
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That is frustrating! I just told my family last night. That is for you to tell.
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February 22nd, 2012, 09:11 AM
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WOw thats all I have to say. You shouldn't leave though. I would be irate if it happened to me. Well it wasn't me I live to far .
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February 22nd, 2012, 09:12 AM
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I am very sorry that happened to you. It wasn't me! I don't tell people I talk to strangers online about private things. They think you're nuts. ha ha.
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February 22nd, 2012, 09:19 AM
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Wow crazy! Hope it wasn't intentionally trying to hurt you
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February 22nd, 2012, 09:26 AM
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Wow, that's not a very nice thing to do. Hopefully the person didn't mean any harm. I'm sorry you want to leave, but I have to admit I'd probably do the same if I was in your shoes. Still, I hope you figure out who it is and decide to come back.
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February 22nd, 2012, 10:08 AM
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So sorry that someone shared your news without your permission. However, for all you know, the person may not even be in this DDC. People lurk on other boards and there is a chance they may just be a lurker. Regardless that was wrong and I am sorry you are going through this. If the person does not step forward, you can always ask your MIL about who it is after you decided to let her know.
This. There are thousands of members of this message board, so you can't be certain it's anyone in this particular DDC. Considering it's a public forum, it happens. Sorry it happened to you--that stinks!
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February 22nd, 2012, 10:21 AM
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well it wasnt me, i think ive put my name on here once lol, i cant even remember if ive put a pic up of me on my old ddc, with that being said im so sorry this happened to you and i doubt whoever did it will actually confess
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February 22nd, 2012, 10:48 AM
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I am sorry this happened to you. This has always been my biggest fear joining these things so early.

Please don't leave. I would be ticked, but I would hate to miss out on all of the support that these forums lend. And that is not fair to you to miss.

Alright lurker - whoever you are - YOU SUCK!
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February 22nd, 2012, 10:56 AM
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It wasn't me! I don't tell people I talk to strangers online about private things. They think you're nuts. ha ha.
Haha...Ditto!

I'm sorry your privacy was not respected, and hope that after things settle down you'll decide to stick around. It wouldn't seem fair for you to miss out on the support of a whole DDC due to issues with one person, but I can understand the sentiment.
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