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August 16th, 2012, 10:19 AM
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Sometimes I feel bad for my Fiancee. I have never really had much of a sex drive to begin with, but now that i'm in my third trimester i really don't have one. It's not that i don't want to have sex with him. Most of the time it's uncomfortable and also the fact that there is a baby in the middle of us really freaks me out! I might be alone on this one but who knows. Whether its the opposite feeling for some of you i felt this might be a good subject to talk with other ladies about.
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August 16th, 2012, 11:39 AM
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Baby # 3 on the way!
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I feel the same way, its totally uncomfortable and I'm just not up for doing it, but my dh wants to get it in before it's too late... You know the 6wks wait after the baby is born, I can totally wait lol. I don't really feel that bad for him haha
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August 16th, 2012, 11:45 AM
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MaKinslie's Mommy
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Right there with you guys. No energy! And ironically his sex drive has picked Wayyy up so I feel really bad lol.
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August 16th, 2012, 11:48 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I have been on pelvic rest so I guess I had a good excuse! LOL
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August 16th, 2012, 11:48 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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man I wish my sex drive was non existent right now!!! I have SPD and it hurts like a MOTHER but Im sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo horny!! lol I think my hubby is like oh GREAT!!! but I cant help it! lol
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August 16th, 2012, 11:49 AM
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Mom to 2 beautiful babies
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Totally agree! I've had a pretty good sex drive this pregnancy up until the last week. Now I just feel huge and super uncomfy. Poor hubby was all excited yesterday... he came in bearing new toys and I turned him down....poor guy! Maybe soon. I'm definitely looking foward to the 6 week wait right now.
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August 16th, 2012, 11:56 AM
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not for us still going strong here, almost every night, sometimes 2-3 times a day, its like we both cant get enough! im SERIOUSLY dreading the 6weeks of not having it
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August 16th, 2012, 01:22 PM
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Team Blue Mama of Two
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LOL, I've been "cut off" by the DH... HE is the one who gets weirded out about a 3rd party being so close to the action
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August 16th, 2012, 02:35 PM
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Expecting our 1st 10-2012
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Yeah, I've been a lot more in the mood lately! But, even though he hasn't come out and said it, I think Bryan is a little weirded out since she is so big now and all.
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August 16th, 2012, 03:14 PM
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MaKinslie's Mommy
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You guys are lucky! Wish I was as excited about DTD as some of you cause I miss being in the mood!
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August 16th, 2012, 03:18 PM
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Super Mommy
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I'm still feeling it, but lately we've been so busy it's not as much of a priority... usually just a morning quickie, haha. Preggo sex with a big belly is fun, you have to get creative! It's always lots of laughing, haha.
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August 16th, 2012, 03:32 PM
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I want to, but my private region already feels like it's given birth, so we haven't. DH and I have really enjoyed pregnancy sex this time around. I agree with ride-through (sorry, I can't remember your real name!) that you have to get creative and we always end up laughing!!!
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August 16th, 2012, 05:02 PM
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Originally Posted by lovely.carlie
You guys are lucky! Wish I was as excited about DTD as some of you cause I miss being in the mood!
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I totally agree with you! It's really going to suck after I have Kam, cuz more then likely I will want to and wont be able to for 6wks!!! (OMG)
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August 16th, 2012, 05:26 PM
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Mighty Midget Minion Mom
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LOL Jessica! I am the same way. I can't get it enough. I was going to ask Brandon a question about my car the other night and was like "Oh hunny...." I heard him go "aww crap! Not again woman!"
On a honest note, I think he will be SO glad to have the 6 week break from me (even though he will never admit it)
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August 16th, 2012, 05:48 PM
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Same here. My poor boyfriend! I just have no energy, can't get comfortable and just don't feel like it most of the time. I used to have a very good sex drive but it been weeks and it just doesn't seem to exist anymore. It's not that I don't want to have sex with him...it's almost like I get turned off by thinking about doing "work" instead of sleeping lol.
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August 16th, 2012, 05:57 PM
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Ditto Jessica exactly. I'd like to but my SPD is awful and I just hurt too bad. I was having a fairly good day a couple days ago and we did do it but man did I pay for it the next day. I could barely walk. It'll be nice once I'm healed after the baby's born and we can get back in the swing of things.
On a side note, am I the only one who DOESN'T wait the entire 6 weeks to have sex after having a baby?
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August 16th, 2012, 06:25 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by mommaof4andhalf
LOL Jessica! I am the same way. I can't get it enough. I was going to ask Brandon a question about my car the other night and was like "Oh hunny...." I heard him go "aww crap! Not again woman!"
On a honest note, I think he will be SO glad to have the 6 week break from me (even though he will never admit it)
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I was laughing so hard at this one!!! GOOD one Chrissy!!! lol I had to tell Mark what you said because I was laughing so hard! lol he thought it was pretty great! lol
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August 16th, 2012, 06:42 PM
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Baby # 3 on the way!
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Quote:
Originally Posted by **Jenn**
Ditto Jessica exactly. I'd like to but my SPD is awful and I just hurt too bad. I was having a fairly good day a couple days ago and we did do it but man did I pay for it the next day. I could barely walk. It'll be nice once I'm healed after the baby's born and we can get back in the swing of things.
On a side note, am I the only one who DOESN'T wait the entire 6 weeks to have sex after having a baby?
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Yeah me and dh never waited the entire 6wks more like 4 or 5 wks
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August 16th, 2012, 07:50 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I think it's pretty weird too! If he moves at all before or during, it totally messes up my head lol We decided after about month 5 or 6 there was no more day time sex, it was just to weird!!
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August 17th, 2012, 09:29 AM
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we have to wait the 6 weeks, i cant see my dr earlier unless we use condoms before then....no birth control until 6 week apt, very fertile mamma right after i give birth....not wanting to have a baby that soon
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