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September 25th, 2012, 12:21 AM
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What was the last thing you cried about?
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September 25th, 2012, 03:10 AM
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How nervous I am to be a mom. DH looked stupefied lol he said "you are a great Step Mom, how are you going to be a bad mom to your own flesh and blood? You're going to be great"
Things are just moving a lot quicker than I thought they would.
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September 25th, 2012, 03:33 AM
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Crying right now actually. I know it's mostly hormonal, but I feel like DH is so detached. He wasn't like this with my other pregnancies. He made it to only one appt the whole pregnancy this time. Last two he never missed one. He has no interest in sex or even just cuddling. He never touches my belly or talks about the baby. I am trying to give him the benefit of doubt because this go around he has a rally stressful job. But, it still hurts. When I try to bring it up he just rolls his eyes. So this morning when he crawled back in bed for a few minutes to warm up before work and was more interested in giving affection to the dog, I started crying...
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September 25th, 2012, 04:04 AM
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I cried at our birthing class. At the end, they told all the DH and mamas to put their hands on the baby bellies and think about all of the people in our lives who are mothers and fathers. Well, my father and DH's mother both passed away from cancer and it just made me think of them not being here to meet our baby girl.
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September 25th, 2012, 04:32 AM
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It is going to sound so lame. On Sunday I found a receipt in my drawer from 9/23/11 (same day, last year) of ovulation and pregnancy tests. I was starting to worry that we were going to be trying forever to get pregnant and it just wasn't in the cards for us. It kind of hit me how blessed we are with this little miracle and it made me cry---tears of happiness, not sadness by any means...but cry nonetheless.

Even now when I think about it I get a little misty eyed.

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September 25th, 2012, 04:52 AM
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The last thing I cried about was getting the call last week saying that they may not be able to get me into my c section this Thursday. I was a wreck! The L&D department was throwing such a fit about it that my doctor had to intervene and get a little ruthless with them. Needless to say I cried for nothing and got my date.
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September 25th, 2012, 05:19 AM
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I cried just a little yesterday after I got home after finding out I'm not dilated at all yet. I'm ok with it now, but I was hoping for something!
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September 25th, 2012, 06:43 AM
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I cried Saturday. We were out doing family things and dh was just being grouchy. Just made me so upset cause I was trying to have a nice weekend just the three of us before the baby comes. I know it was hormones.
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September 25th, 2012, 07:08 AM
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J3nn78, hugs. Sorry you are feeling this way; your dh is probably stressed like you said, particularly since he was not that way with your previous pregnancies. Hang in there; he will be all butter and lovey soon, particularly when baby arrives.

I probably cried last 3 to4 months ago because dh got me upset. He trying to argue on why we needed to give his brother some money and I interpreted that as he does not prioritize our needs as his primary family as we have all these expenses infront of us and we are living on just one income, which is not normally the case. Although I was very angry and all and told him we were not giving his brother money (I didn't even as him how much the brother needed), I eventually learned the brother didn't need as much as I feared and gave him the money 3 months later. I had a feeling I just an hormonal mess that day and he chose a wrong time for that discussion. Haven't cried since then but have been hormonal
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September 25th, 2012, 07:08 AM
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lol hmmm let me think...I cry about everything....

I think the last thing I cried about was Saturday, when we were working on getting this ****** apartment ready for the baby, and I felt like no matter what we did it was still messy and still ******. lol.
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September 25th, 2012, 07:48 AM
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This morning actually on the way to daycare.

We had a song that they played in our birthing class last year, that became "Ryan's song" and we listened to it and sang to Ryan everyday the last trimester and after he got here. It came on in the car this morning and I started bawling like a baby. Happy tears of course. It just brought back so many happy memories & reminds me of just how special this little boy is and how much I love him so, so much! I can't believe my baby is about to not be the baby-baby anymore....WOW!
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September 25th, 2012, 08:02 AM
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I cried at church on Sunday when we sang a particular song that I knew my Dad would have loved, because it made me miss him so much, and wish that he was here to meet his grandkids.
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September 25th, 2012, 08:17 AM
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im not a huge cryer, so trying to think of the last time i actually cried and cant really remember
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September 25th, 2012, 09:08 AM
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not a crier at all but i bawled last week after my last appointment having ptsd over my last hemorrhage.
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September 25th, 2012, 09:58 AM
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I'm having one of those moments right now where i'm spinning in circles looking at the apartment and making a list in my head of what I should do...and I just want to curl up in a ball and cry instead.
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September 25th, 2012, 11:39 AM
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I have cried so much, but for sad and happy reasons. Today while I was at Wegmans the NICU social worker called to inform me that the girls will be coming home mid October!!!! O I am so relieved and they'll both be coming home not just one.
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September 25th, 2012, 11:47 AM
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Yay for Paige and London homecoming by mid October. So happy for you and your family.
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September 25th, 2012, 12:31 PM
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Yay Angelina!!!!!!! I cried last night. I was holding Ella and started thinking about how much my grandma would have loved her. My only girl with her big brown eyes *sniff*
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September 25th, 2012, 01:09 PM
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I cried yesterday I think. I'm just so stressed out...And I really wish things between Brandon and I were different. Although I know it's for the best that we aren't together I can't help but feel extremely alone and miserable at this point. I just wish I was in a happy relationship. Being pregnant and expecting your first child is hard enough and I just wish I had someone I loved to share it with... And since I am on bed rest I have no one to really help me do anything, I just feel helpless and totally alone. Ugh!
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September 25th, 2012, 02:22 PM
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Last night when I couldn't work out how to turn on the dishwasher because it had been set to a 2hr delay...lol. So minor, so silly. I obviously have some hormones surging.
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