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October 27th, 2012, 05:27 PM
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Does anyone know why u have to wait 6weeks post c section??? I understand post vag delivery, but why post C section??
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October 27th, 2012, 05:52 PM
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My understanding is that you need to give your uterus time to heal properly. Your incision can look pretty good on the outside, but it stretches hip bone to hip bone internally, and takes much longer to properly heal internally. I would recommend waiting until fairly close to the 6 week mark.

This was a good link:
Fact & Fiction: Sex After Pregnancy - CBS News
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October 27th, 2012, 05:55 PM
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That makes sense . We were soooo not into it at the end of my pregnancy, now I totally want to re connect with my husband. I'll be patient. ;-)
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October 27th, 2012, 06:31 PM
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ummmmm.....we did it at 5 days pp...crazy i know, felt amazing he was slow and it didnt hurt, i am 3 weeks two days pp and we got the clearance yesterday to dtd from the dr plus a RX of birth control! i think everyone heals different, my dr told me as long as it didnt hurt and you feel 100% fine with it then go for it!
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October 27th, 2012, 08:55 PM
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We tried yesterday and it sucked a**. Worst pain I've ever felt in my life! Felt like DH had razorblades on his thing. Ugh. I think it was my cervix that hurt the worst....poor thing, I believe, was annihilated by the fetal monitor when they had to put me on my hands and knees super quick....idk though. DH just said there was a ton of blood everywhere and I think it may have been from that poor cervix. I should have said no to that sh*t being put inside me!

You may have a totally different experience though and I hope you do!!!
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October 27th, 2012, 09:55 PM
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oh abur! you poor thing! i had the fetal monitor also! but i felt like the way you felt with a vag birth
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October 27th, 2012, 10:11 PM
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I just looked with a hand mirror "down there" tonight, and let me just say I was SHOCKED at how unrecognizable my lady parts still are at 3 weeks PP... oh. my. gosh. No wonder I'm still sore!! Yeah, DH won't be getting any action for SEVERAL more weeks!
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October 28th, 2012, 12:35 AM
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Idk but I am one week pp and I want sex, FINALLY, but my incision and uterus still hurt pretty bad. I think sex would suck now
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October 28th, 2012, 03:35 AM
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You guys husbands are luckier than mine, I want sleep... Not sex. Lol.
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October 28th, 2012, 04:32 AM
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I want to reconnect with my hubby too! but Im scared to try this soon! lol
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October 28th, 2012, 05:37 AM
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^ ditto. Me to!!
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October 28th, 2012, 06:33 AM
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I was just told 4 weeks was fine.
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October 28th, 2012, 07:48 AM
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I think 4 weeks would be safe too......

Amanda u poor thing!
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October 28th, 2012, 08:35 AM
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I've been thinking about it, but mostly about when we'll manage to catch both kids asleep so we can try. Haha.
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October 28th, 2012, 10:16 AM
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I want it 1 week PP but I don't think the meds had worn off at that point!!!!! LOL!!!
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October 28th, 2012, 12:08 PM
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We've always just waited until the bleeding had stopped and I felt ready, not the arbitrary 6 weeks. But I think it's riskier with a c/s, because there are so many layers of tissue and muscles trying to heal. Last thing you want to do is aggravate the internal incisions!!!
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