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Had sex! It was terrible It has been 4 months and I have been "ready" for about a month. We got to it this morning and I was sooo excited but when we go to it I could not wait for it to be over. It hurt really bad which I dont understand at all. 4 kids all vaginal, 10 weeks pp and it hurt...***?!?! I hope it gets better because after that, I have nooooo desire to do it again. This has never happened! Dh was happy though
"working order"... Are we a faulty machine? seriously though, I felt "broken" when I couldn't even enjoy sex after months of not having it!! glad its getting better!! And thanks for the laugh Amanda. I always love your posts.
We still haven't DTD... DH has been wanting too but I've been a little nervous about it because I know it will probably be uncomfortable/hurt. I still don't wipe normally around where I tore. I tried to around Thanksgiving, managed to pull off a scab (or something), and started bleeding. I feel bad because I know DH feels neglected right now. We haven't DTD since... 7 or 8 months? Something like that. And, despite being nervous, I really want to because I've been feeling like we're just friends living together, the way things have been going lately - mostly because of how lacking our love life is.
I didn't think we needed any lube...I was very ready lol... I sure hope it gets better like you ladies are telling me it will. No I never had this problem with the other 3. With my first I had stitches and I waited about 2 months before dtd and it was totally fine. The other 2 were fine too, but this time around is no good. Ahhh I am scared to try again!