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December 16th, 2012, 09:36 AM
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Had sex! It was terrible It has been 4 months and I have been "ready" for about a month. We got to it this morning and I was sooo excited but when we go to it I could not wait for it to be over. It hurt really bad which I dont understand at all. 4 kids all vaginal, 10 weeks pp and it hurt...***?!?! I hope it gets better because after that, I have nooooo desire to do it again. This has never happened! Dh was happy though
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December 16th, 2012, 10:40 AM
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We DTD for the first time last night. I had a c-section and it still hurt. Hopefully it'll feel better soon! You never had that problem with your others?
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December 16th, 2012, 11:50 AM
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It gets better....I swear
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December 16th, 2012, 01:06 PM
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Did you use plenty of lube? I'm betting it will get better each time. Maybe you can encourage DH to make it quick if you know what I mean?
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December 16th, 2012, 04:11 PM
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I second the lube and it will be better already next time. we've done it twice and it was much less painful the second time! The first time burned like crazy!!
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December 16th, 2012, 05:09 PM
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Seriously, lube and keep at it. You will get back in comfortable, working order in no time!
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December 16th, 2012, 06:37 PM
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"working order"... Are we a faulty machine? seriously though, I felt "broken" when I couldn't even enjoy sex after months of not having it!! glad its getting better!! And thanks for the laugh Amanda. I always love your posts.
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December 16th, 2012, 07:45 PM
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We still haven't DTD... DH has been wanting too but I've been a little nervous about it because I know it will probably be uncomfortable/hurt. I still don't wipe normally around where I tore. I tried to around Thanksgiving, managed to pull off a scab (or something), and started bleeding. I feel bad because I know DH feels neglected right now. We haven't DTD since... 7 or 8 months? Something like that. And, despite being nervous, I really want to because I've been feeling like we're just friends living together, the way things have been going lately - mostly because of how lacking our love life is.
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December 16th, 2012, 07:54 PM
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We've done it 3 times the 2nd was the worst, we had to "finish" another way, I couldn't do it anymore. Then the 3rd time was wayyy better. Def couldn't finish myself but it didn't hurt so bad.
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December 16th, 2012, 07:58 PM
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December 16th, 2012, 08:56 PM
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I didn't think we needed any lube...I was very ready lol... I sure hope it gets better like you ladies are telling me it will. No I never had this problem with the other 3. With my first I had stitches and I waited about 2 months before dtd and it was totally fine. The other 2 were fine too, but this time around is no good. Ahhh I am scared to try again!
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