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so i got to thinkng about the wierdest things i heard b4 I started BFing and during and was wondering what all doozzys you guys heard to.
for me it was before I gave birth I was told to go ahead and start pumping to esstablish my supply or the baby whould starve ............pure insanity
or the oh so common it wont hurt if your doing it right............ soryy but no. no matter howmany nurses check latch and pedis check lips and tounges those 1st 3 days were still hell my nips cracked and chafed tits swelled my back almost broke in half from slouching to get to him even with a nurseing pillow
I don't breastfeed anymore, I stopped after 2 weeks, but I was annoyed by people telling me that he was losing too much weight in the hospital. Most breastfed babies lose a little at first, and he wasn't losing much! No one but the hospital pediatrician gave me any crap.
It seems like a lot of people in the hospital get pushed into supplementing with formula when it really isn't necessary. Babies don't eat much the first few days. Their tummies are so small that they only need the few drops of colostrum. I supplemented right away with Riley, and I believe it's what ruined our BFing relationship in the end. With Eve I have only nursed right from the beginning and she's still EBF at almost 6 months old.
Ditto to the "can't eat XYZ" comment, though I know it really does affect some babies, I guess we're lucky that I can eat anything.
I'm so glad no one ever tried to convince me to supplement, I was so clueless and nervous in the beginning that I may have allowed it.
I hope what I just said about being "clueless" doesn't sound like Im calling anyone who supplements clueless, that wasnt what I meant! In our particular situation there would have been no reason for it, Nora was latching well and had a good appetite and I was making enough milk. I know there are situations where supplementing/formula feeding really is the best choice.
Those excuses are so stupid!!! LOL I breastfed some babies and some no. My excuse is because I have ulcerative colitis its a nasty colon disease that it seems the meds I take after birth in order for me to stay in remission are NOT something a baby should ever have and 100% pass threw the breast milk. I sure do miss it tho. I love breastfeeding. My daughter and son in law live with us and she is breastfeeding her baby and he just turned 1. I sadly cannot believe the pressure she goes threw and has about how she should STOP breastfeeding at 6 months... Dh and I support her 100% and encourage her to go longer. I am very proud of her for not caving in to pressure. I will NEVER understand why people make women feel bad for taking good care of their babies..
This one makes me sick - "oh, they have teeth, guess its time to quit!" Ugh. My MIL made a comment when she saw Hannah's teeth about me "being glad I wasn't breastfeeding anymore". I said no, you can still BF when the baby has teeth....she said "no, its time to quit then!". I was fuming. She only BF'd my SIL and DH for like a month then gave up. When I was having trouble with BF'ing she just said "yeah, its hard to get over but its best when you do". Now that she had said this, it has pissed me off. Bahhh! What a supporter ..not.
I don't take offense to the 'clueless' thing. I was kind of clueless! He was my first kid, I'd never breastfed and he was having trouble latching. The nurse told me I should give him a bit of formula until we figured it out and so I did. I never would have done it if I knew then what I know now!