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April 8th, 2013, 01:10 AM
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For those of you who tore down there, how are things now? I would say I'm at about 90%... still a little tender when dtd, and I also notice that area kind of bothers me if I am having a large bowel movement I did not tear badly, it only required a few stitches, and it was an internal tear.
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April 8th, 2013, 04:37 AM
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I have been 100% healed for a while now. I'll say I've been healed since 2 months after; don't even know where it was again. Mine was a 2nd degree tear.
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April 8th, 2013, 05:11 AM
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I had a tear and an episiotomy and they're both healed. Like you, I can sometimes feel it during a BM, but that's the only time I notice it.
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April 8th, 2013, 08:58 AM
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I'm a 100% healed. I had an internal tear that only needed a few stitches also.
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April 8th, 2013, 09:05 AM
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I had a second degree tear. I tore in the same spot with both kids. It still hurts in certain positions when we DTD, a burning feeling.
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April 8th, 2013, 02:14 PM
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I feel completely healed. Had a second degree tear. In the past, I felt sore for a little longer, but it eventually goes back to normal... just be patient!
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April 8th, 2013, 07:56 PM
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It still hurts a bit to DTD, I have to ask DH to start out VERY slow. It usually gets better as we go, but the first couple minutes are OWW!
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April 8th, 2013, 08:01 PM
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2nd degree tear here, too (thanks, forceps). It still hurts sometimes during DTD, but it has gotten SO much better...in the beginning I was pretty sure I was ruined.
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April 8th, 2013, 08:05 PM
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2nd degree here as well. It doesn't hurt me so I think that I am healed. I do know that some parts feel more pushed out now though so sometimes things that used to feel fine are irritating down there and I don't enjoy it ha.
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April 8th, 2013, 11:49 PM
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I felt 100% healed since the first couple weeks after delivery. I have a very good doctor. I tore with my first daughter and also tore with Melody. With Melody I tore twice during delivery, luckily I didn't feel anything though because of the medication, I probably wouldn't of even known I was having a baby if I didn't see it for myself
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April 9th, 2013, 06:49 AM
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I had a second degree tear. I tore in the same spot with both kids. It still hurts in certain positions when we DTD, a burning feeling.
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April 9th, 2013, 08:53 AM
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I had a second degree interior tear. Mine took about a month to fully heal. Sometimes if I have a big BM (TMI, I know), I can feel it a little, and like Carlie, some of my parts feel a little pushed out. Not uncomfortable at all, but I feel it.

DTD feels even better since having our DD. Sounds weird, I know!
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