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April 15th, 2012, 03:37 AM
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It is our anniversary weeekend so my husband and I headed to Vegas. On the way there I had some minor cramping and when we checked into the hotel, I peed and realized I was bleeding red with some clots. We went right to the ER. After five hours of waiting the doctor told us there was no heartbeat and that i will miscarry or need to schedule a d&c with my ob. I am devastated. I really thought we were in the clear After we heard such a strong heartbeat at our eight week appointment we started telling more and more people. Now we have to go back and tell them of the loss. My husband is crushed as well. His mother is dying of pancreatic cancer and this baby gave her hope and him the feeling that his mom will live to meet his child. She too will be crushed.

This was my first pregnancy ever and I loves this little being so much. I'm so sad that it is over. I'm not surprised since I look back and I really had zero symptoms

I just want to say it was great being a part of this group and I'm destroyed that I have to say goodbye. I hope you all a stress free pregnancy..
Please forgive any typos. It is 3am and I'm sitting in the tub of my hotel room while sobbing and typin on my cellphone.
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April 15th, 2012, 04:12 AM
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I am so sorry to hear that. I will be praying for you and your family.
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April 15th, 2012, 04:28 AM
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I'm so sorry, I'll be praying for your family. ((Hugs))
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April 15th, 2012, 04:56 AM
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I am so, so, so sorry. Miscarriages are so hard. I hope you are able to get pregnant with a sticky baby soon... as soon as you are ready. ((Hugs))
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April 15th, 2012, 05:07 AM
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Big hugs and sending many T&Ps!!! So sorry!!
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April 15th, 2012, 05:28 AM
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I am truly sorry. M/Cs are a sorrow nobody should have to face. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you. (((hugs)))
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April 15th, 2012, 05:33 AM
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I am so, so sorry to hear about your loss. My mom has terminal breast cancer and I had to tell her about my loss this December. It sucks a special kind of hell. I hope you'll join us in Pregnancy Loss (link in my siggie). My thoughts and prayers are with you.
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April 15th, 2012, 05:52 AM
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There really are no words to express how sorry I am for your loss. I will pray for you and your family
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April 15th, 2012, 06:00 AM
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Im so sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers
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April 15th, 2012, 06:05 AM
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I am so sorry that you are going through this! :'( You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
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April 15th, 2012, 06:10 AM
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I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. ::hugs::
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April 15th, 2012, 06:39 AM
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I am so sorry! I will be thinking about you during this hard time.
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April 15th, 2012, 06:58 AM
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I am so sorry! Miscarriages are truly devastating! T&P's your way.
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April 15th, 2012, 06:59 AM
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T&ps for you and you family. M
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April 15th, 2012, 07:05 AM
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I'm so so sorry . My heart is breaking for you
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April 15th, 2012, 07:07 AM
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Oh no! I'm heartbroken for you.
So sorry and I hope you will have a healthy baby soon.
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April 15th, 2012, 07:20 AM
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I'm so sorry for your loss.
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April 15th, 2012, 07:21 AM
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So, so, sorry that you have to go through a miscarriage. Please take some time for yourself. I am truly sorry for your loss.

I know it may not mean much, but what helped me...was thinking that it might not have been a healthy baby/pregnancy. Sometimes the human body will take care of things that are not meant to be.
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April 15th, 2012, 08:08 AM
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I'm so, so sorry. All my love...
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April 15th, 2012, 08:12 AM
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I'm so sorry for your loss. Will keep you and your family in my prayers. :Hugs:
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