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im not even from this DDC but i feel like its very disrespectful for you to post in a DDC where women have tried extremely hard to get pregnant and are very excited about their pregnancies asking if you should get an abortion! some of these ladies have prob been trying for months to get pregnant! if you are not sure post in another board not one for ladies who actually want their babies!! i got pregnant young and didnt "have room" for the baby or the money but i still had her and 5 years later she is the most amazing thing in my life! im sure all the ladies who could possibly be loosing babies will love to read about how you want to kill yours
I've been trying to conceive our first child for 19 months, and have had 1 m/c, and I am 40 years old, so I am out of biological time. That said, mom113, your post did not offend or hurt me in the slightest. I know sara is probably just trying to look out for our feelings. I appreciate that. I'm not a decision maker on this board, but if the moderators or whoever has final say is fine with you posting this here, then I certainly am! I empathize with you!
i am looking out for your feelings. if someone came to our board and posted this it would offend me. i love coming here and seeing happy posts about getting BFP's and seeing you ladies start your journies.
Sorry this baby is inconvenient to you, maybe instead of abortion you might want to consider adoption for someone who really wants your baby that way you won't be taking anything away from your kids nothing will be "thrown out the window".
Just lurking, but we do have an amayzing board here called "Unplanned Pregnancy". Its extremely supportive for women in your exact situation. You will not be judged there and will receive some great advice. Just scroll down past the DDC's and its the first one in the next section. Good luck to you in whatever you decide, I know how torn you must feel.
I am also not from this board (sorry for popping in girls!) but I agree that this is probably not where you should be posting something like this. However, JM does have a board that will offer much more help in terms of your situation.
I saw you posted in Unplanned Pregnancy - JustMommies Message Boards and I was about to actually suggest there. It's probably a much better place. Many women in the DDCs have been trying for quite some time to conceive their little bundles, so it may be upsetting to some ladies to see this.
If you want to delete it, you can edit your post and replace your text with a period ( . ) instead.
Kailey(20) Cloth diapering, breastfeeding, babywearing, extended RF'ing, slightly crazy mommy to Ashlynn (3 * 1/28/10) and Matthew (10 months * 6/20/12)