[JennyBaby2013]

I don't know what's happening, if anything. Yesterday was weird b/c I felt a little off and my appetite wasn't so ravenous as it's been all week. Then I started having a smidge of cramping, not real cramping but almost that crampy feeling that's not really crampy as much as a very dull ache before your period arrives. While at work I kept checking to see if there was anything when I went to the bathroom b/c I had that feeing. Nothing.

I left work 1/2 hour early b/c I started getting really bad gas cramps and had to use the potty but with my constipation I'm often in there for a while so I avoid going at work. I had a movement and then chalked up the crampy aches to that.

I ran to the store, came home and baked a cake, made potato salad, made mac salad in the 90 degree + heat (daughters bday party tomorrow) and then my bff with her 2 kids arrived for the weekend. We then had some stress with our neighbors upstairs - that's a whole other story in itself but I was FUMING!

So I went pee and I had some brown discharge on my pantyliner. Then there was some when I wiped. Before I went to bed it was gone for the most part except a tint. Then when I got up this morning it was there again but only when I wipe and very lightly tinted but enough that I'm noticing.

I felt that achy feeling again last night and this morning.

I have an appointment on Monday. I don't know if I should call or not b/c I'm guessing that i'll get the whole "if you get cramps or see red blood" spiel.

I laid down for the rest of last night. My daughters pool party/bbq is today so I will have dh do most of the work and I'll try to take it easy.

I might call after 8 to at least get their opinion.

I only had brown spotting once w/my daughter and it was the time of my first missed period. The only other time I had any kind of bleeding was when I had a miscarriage. Of course i'm thinking the worst. I read online how normal it is but then you have cases where's it's not - like Clare's.

I'll update if anything changes...

Update: spoke to the midwife and she said everything I was expecting to hear like it can be normal and that i'm probably fine etc. She did tell me that I need to get the Rhogam shot on Monday b/c I need it within 72 hours of any bleeding. So for now we'll just cross our fingers and wait and see! So far today I only had some lightly tinted discharge when wiping and only in the AM.

Update #2: Had my appointment today and heard the heartbeat

[MammaWannaBe]

I know it's hard not to think the worst especially with what happened to Claire and her final warning about brown discharge, but it's usually nothing to worry about. That being said, go ahead and call your Dr and see what they say. They are the professionals. But try not to jump to miscarriage. It could be a number of things. Call the DR, try and rest and relax and keep us updated!

[Babyschultz]

I would just give your Dr a call. It most likely is nothing, but better to ease your mine then worry all weekend.

[lovelyenchanted]

I know it's hard not to worry but try to relax and call first thing when they open. Or you could call the doctor on call or go to ER if worse. I jumped to the same conclusion, that it was over. Turned out I have a small bleed / clot that is NOT affecting the baby as of right now. Also BV can cause spotting AND cramping (those are the only 2 symptoms I ever had).

I found a saying on a thread once and it was something like "you are more likely to stay pregnant than not to." and it has really helped me to relax sometimes in situations like this.

I am still crampy. And still spotting. But the bean is good so far. I pray everything turns out good for you too.

Keep hydrated and KUP. *hugs*

[JennyBaby2013]

Thank you everyone

My doc office is not open today but I'm sure they have someone on call so I am going to call and see what they say. I'm sure I'll get the answering service and have to wait for a call back.

I know it's not hard to think the worst and I'm trying not to but you know how it goes...

Happy thoughts!! Happy, happy thoughts!

[LilHerndon]

I know it's super scary, but brown discharge really can be nothing, especially if you may have strained during your bowel movement or over-worked yourself. My two instances of brown discharge were after days I just did a little too much, so relax and enjoy the day, give the doc a call, and try to breathe a bit easier. I think what happened to Clare has us all thinking the worst right now, when that often isn't the case.

[JennyBaby2013]

Originally Posted by LilHerndon

I know it's super scary, but brown discharge really can be nothing, especially if you may have strained during your bowel movement or over-worked yourself. My two instances of brown discharge were after days I just did a little too much, so relax and enjoy the day, give the doc a call, and try to breathe a bit easier. I think what happened to Clare has us all thinking the worst right now, when that often isn't the case.

Thank you

I did do a lot yesterday so I'm hoping it's just from that. I am waiting now for the midwife to call me back.

I'm keeping hydrated and trying to relax. It is nice knowing that there are people who've had this and have been A-Ok. I'm trying to think positively.

[iamkc]

It sounds like you just did too much! A few weeks ago, I had the same thing happen. Not much spotting at all, but cramping for days and a little spotting. I just had to lie down and rest as much as possible for a couple of days after!

I hope that it's nothing. Maybe on Monday, you can get a sneak peek!

[JennyBaby2013]

Originally Posted by iamkc

It sounds like you just did too much! A few weeks ago, I had the same thing happen. Not much spotting at all, but cramping for days and a little spotting. I just had to lie down and rest as much as possible for a couple of days after!

I hope that it's nothing. Maybe on Monday, you can get a sneak peek!

Thank you! I hope that's he case. I just had a little bit more but was very stressed out....hoping that after my daughters party that I can put my feet up, relax and drink lots of water and just relax.

It's been a very stressful 2 days (I'll explain later but sometimes people are just A-holes!!).... lol

I am trying to stay positive!

[lovelyenchanted]

Glad you're trying to stay positive. That's the best thing to do.

I've had more brownish CM today than I have in the past 2 days, but I've been up cleaning and went to the grocery store... definitely a lot more than I had been doing since this started. So, I think activity definitely plays a part in it.

[captivate]

Hey guys. My warning was from the hospital about brown cm. Here in the uk I have now been told its mot normal and to get it sorted.

I am still angry with the world but hope you brown cm ladies get the good news.

Im still lurking here. Living in ttcal with Laceymay.
Keep positive March edd is up.

Keep healthy. X

[MammaWannaBe]

Originally Posted by captivate

Hey guys. My warning was from the hospital about brown cm. Here in the uk I have now been told its mot normal and to get it sorted.

I am still angry with the world but hope you brown cm ladies get the good news.

Im still lurking here. Living in ttcal with Laceymay.
Keep positive March edd is up.

Keep healthy. X

I don't blame you. I keep you in my prayers. Know we all miss you and Lacey and love you guys!

[JennyBaby2013]

Originally Posted by lovelyenchanted

Glad you're trying to stay positive. That's the best thing to do.

I've had more brownish CM today than I have in the past 2 days, but I've been up cleaning and went to the grocery store... definitely a lot more than I had been doing since this started. So, I think activity definitely plays a part in it.

I think so too. All the times I've been more active today I've had some when I wiped. When I've been sitting around I've been fine during the potty trips. I'm couch bound for the evening now

I hope it lets up for both of us!

Originally Posted by captivate

Hey guys. My warning was from the hospital about brown cm. Here in the uk I have now been told its mot normal and to get it sorted.

I am still angry with the world but hope you brown cm ladies get the good news.

Im still lurking here. Living in ttcal with Laceymay.
Keep positive March edd is up.

Keep healthy. X

Thank you! I have an appointment on Monday so we'll see what happens. It's scary, I'm trying to stay positive but it's hard. This is not something I experienced w/the other kids so of course my mind goes right to worst case scenario

We miss you tons over here. I hope you are blessed with a sweet rainbow baby soon. ((hugs))

[Lucky Mama]

Try to relax. Either way, stressing isn't going to help. I know it's SO much easier said than done, but try your best to stay positive.

Personally, I had everything from brown CM to full-on, gushing blood with my first pregnancy. I did have a low-lying placenta that resolved itself, but other than that I had a normal pregnancy and a healthy, term baby. My cervix was just very sensitive and bled from time to time.

I've also had spotting this time around and even with my past experiences, it's scary! It's okay to be nervous and concerned. This is your baby! You should care! I'm glad you're going to have it checked out to be absolutely sure things are okay. Peace of mind is important.

Just try not to assume the worst. Spotting can indicate a problem, but it can also be 100% normal. Lots of changes, stretching, loosening, and growing going on.

I will keep all my crossables crossed for you and your bean. Hang in there.

[JennyBaby2013]

Originally Posted by Lucky Mama

Try to relax. Either way, stressing isn't going to help. I know it's SO much easier said than done, but try your best to stay positive.

Personally, I had everything from brown CM to full-on, gushing blood with my first pregnancy. I did have a low-lying placenta that resolved itself, but other than that I had a normal pregnancy and a healthy, term baby. My cervix was just very sensitive and bled from time to time.

I've also had spotting this time around and even with my past experiences, it's scary! It's okay to be nervous and concerned. This is your baby! You should care! I'm glad you're going to have it checked out to be absolutely sure things are okay. Peace of mind is important.

Just try not to assume the worst. Spotting can indicate a problem, but it can also be 100% normal. Lots of changes, stretching, loosening, and growing going on.

I will keep all my crossables crossed for you and your bean. Hang in there.

Thank you. I've been on the couch since I got home this evening. I've been watching tv and drifting in and out of sleep. Haven't had anything when I wipe since the afternoon. I'm going to take it easy tomorrow too and just keep hoping and praying that things are ok.

[LisaG825]

Spotting sucks. I have had spotting/bleeding with all 3 of my pregnancies. First one resulted in a miscarriage, second - have a healthy 1 year old, and now this pregnancy. I know it is really hard especially after a miscarriage.

I get it in my head when I get sick that I am going to miscarry. I was really sick very early on due to a higher hcg with a partial molar pregnancy. So I associate everything with that pregnancy and think I am doomed. Like I said it is really hard to not think the worst after a loss. The only thing getting me through my days now is my doppler that I have at home. I would be going insane without it.

I will be thinking and praying for you. Please let us know how monday goes and if you need to talk I am here.

[JennyBaby2013]

Originally Posted by LisaG825

Spotting sucks. I have had spotting/bleeding with all 3 of my pregnancies. First one resulted in a miscarriage, second - have a healthy 1 year old, and now this pregnancy. I know it is really hard especially after a miscarriage.

I get it in my head when I get sick that I am going to miscarry. I was really sick very early on due to a higher hcg with a partial molar pregnancy. So I associate everything with that pregnancy and think I am doomed. Like I said it is really hard to not think the worst after a loss. The only thing getting me through my days now is my doppler that I have at home. I would be going insane without it.

I will be thinking and praying for you. Please let us know how monday goes and if you need to talk I am here.

Thank you

My loss was my first pregnancy and it made every pregnancy after so frightening. W/my loss the bleeding etc was different. I had loose bowel movements and then started getting really bad lower back cramps, spotting that turned to bleeding and it turned into a full on labor type thing. I was 8 weeks and it was a horrible experience. I spotted right before 4 weeks w/my daughter (brown discharge) and never had any after that. I never had any bleeding or spotting w/my boys.

I know every pregnancy is different but when you have anything like this your mind automatically goes to the worst case scenario. I am so nervous to go in on monday. If she tries to listen for the heartbeat and doesn't hear it (I'll be 10w1d) than I'm going to insist we take a peek in there b/c I need peace of mind. Uggggghhhhhhh!!!! My next appointment after that is my NT scan which is almost an hour away and I can't imagine waiting 2 more weeks, driving that far off and getting bad news if that's the case. I just need to know if everything is ok. Hurry Monday!

Thanks for letting me vent everyone. It's made me feel much better

[iamkc]

Oh, jeez. Yeah, tomorrow might be too early to hear the heartbeat. If the baby is in the exact right position, and everything within you cooperates, AND you have a patient nurse, MAYBE you can hear it tomorrow. But if all of those don't fall into place, you likely won't. PLEASE don't panic. Or, don't panic internally. Pitch a big fit to get an ultrasound to ease your mind. Hahahahahahaha

I do understand the fear. I had loss after loss, and then with my first "successful" pregnancy with DS1, the pregnancy itself went great! No complications, no spotting, nothing. And then I got pregnant with DS2. I started spotting at 17 weeks after I had already had 2 or 3 ultrasounds. I was in tears. My experience: spotting=loss. Regular pregnancy=perfect. Of course, that's not the case.

I hope that you're able to rest until tomorrow, and I hope that the doctor has great news for you!

[JennyBaby2013]

Originally Posted by iamkc

Oh, jeez. Yeah, tomorrow might be too early to hear the heartbeat. If the baby is in the exact right position, and everything within you cooperates, AND you have a patient nurse, MAYBE you can hear it tomorrow. But if all of those don't fall into place, you likely won't. PLEASE don't panic. Or, don't panic internally. Pitch a big fit to get an ultrasound to ease your mind. Hahahahahahaha

I do understand the fear. I had loss after loss, and then with my first "successful" pregnancy with DS1, the pregnancy itself went great! No complications, no spotting, nothing. And then I got pregnant with DS2. I started spotting at 17 weeks after I had already had 2 or 3 ultrasounds. I was in tears. My experience: spotting=loss. Regular pregnancy=perfect. Of course, that's not the case.

I hope that you're able to rest until tomorrow, and I hope that the doctor has great news for you!

Thank you. I don't have much hope that we'll hear the heartbeat w/the doppler tomorrow so I'm already prepping myself to not hear it. I'm ready to break into tears to get some kind of reassurance from them though! lol

That's how my mind frame was too w/the spotting = loss. That's the first thing I thought of when I spotted w/my daughter. I figured it was going to be a chemical pregnancy but it wasn't. Her's was brown blood too. This time b/c it happened so much later it's been freaking me out.

I had some brown CM this morning when wiping and haven't had any since. Seems like it comes and goes, is very random and has been light - more like tinted cm.

No cramps and no red. So I'm sure hoping it's nothing.

I've been trying to relax today. When DH gets home from running errands I'm going to take a shower and chill on the couch again for the evening.

It's reassuring that so many of us on here have had this at some point so far. Wish none of us had any at all but it's nice not to be alone.

[iamkc]

I have noticed that if I don't drink enough, my CM looks brown. It's NOT, but my CM regular color is a little yellow, so it goes darker when I'm dehydrated. It keeps freaking me out, and I assume that I'm having problems. I drink something, and of course, it clears right up. So at the very least, keep drinking as much as possible so that you're not showing the world what an idiot you are, like I am.