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It's my deepest regret to tell you al that when I went for my appointment today the Dr checked for a heartbeat via doppler and didn't find one. They moved me over to u/s and it quickly became aparent that there wasn't one any more. There had been no growth past 10 weeks and everything was already begining to break down.
I'm so numb and angry right now. I feel so let down by my body that is just happily still taking care of a non-viable pregnancy. Since it's already been so long and my body hasn't naturally done anything my Dr (who is really great by the way) has booked me in for a D&C in the morning. I have to be at the hospital at 7am.
I just don't know how to feel at this point. Thank you ladies for being such a great group. i hope you all have smooth pregnancies the rest of the way out and easy deliveries. I'll check back from time to time to see how you all are.
I hope you have a speedy physical recovery. I had a D&C 8 days ago and physically am now feeling great. This must be such a shock to you. I am starting to think that Missed Miscarriages are more common than the normal kind.
Please do NOT be mad with your body. I was told that beause the body continued to carry the baby, it was not your body that let it down, it was the baby that was wrong in some way. I know it means nothing now and it still doesnt not to me but 8 days later I am starting to feel like it was not my fault
They said to me a missed miscarriage means the body wanted it and the baby went wrong. Also if the baby was under 10 weeks like ours then it never managed to get to the fetus stage.
It saddens me to think you are where I was with your anger towards your body. If you need a ear I am here.
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I am very sorry for the loss. I have not experienced a loss myself so I cant claim to understand how you feel but I can only imagine the pain. I hope you heal mentally and physically soon enough to try again and I would love if you came back to check in when you feel ok doing so
I'm so sorry. God, there has been so much loss. I am praying for everyone on this board for a quick recovery and rainbow baby or a healthy 9 months. It seems we have almost been cut in half in numbers.
I am so sorry for your loss! I feel horrible!! I personally have never lost a baby so I cannot even imagine what it's like......I will keep you in my thought and prayers!!!!
Oh no, I am so so sorry. I wish there were words to help make the pain go away. I hope you have a speedy recovery and you find peace with all of this soon.
I am so sorry about your loss. A loss is never easy at any stage. D&C's are really quick. You might be a little sore after, but physically should heal quickly.
If you ever need anything don't hesitate to message me. While I don't know you personally, I have talked with a lot of women who have lost a little one.
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Gabriel Matthew- Induced @15w4d on 12/16/09 (Partial Molar Pregnancy). Took 6 1/2 months reach negative after 3 methotrexate injections, D&C 2/19/10, & 6 rounds of chemo Act-d.
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I pray the Lord your soul to keep;
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My heart breaks for you. I wish I could say something to make you feel better, but I know words can do very little right now. I will say this isn't your fault. It's not fair and you have every right to be upset, hurt, and angry. Give your body and heart time to grieve and heal.
I hope you will keep us updated on how you're doing. You'll be in my thoughts and prayers. Hugs, sweetie.
