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September 27th, 2012, 06:48 AM
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Do you have any fears about the rest of your pregnancy?

Do you have any fears about labor and delivery?

Do you have any fears about how life will change after baby gets here?

We are all approaching the 3rd trimester and just curious how everyone is doing.
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September 27th, 2012, 07:18 AM
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Do you have any fears about the rest of your pregnancy?

Yea, I had a stillbirth...so I guess I'm always going to be afraid of that.

Do you have any fears about labor and delivery?

See above. Plus..I cant have an epidural (never had one). So, Im a bit worried that I wont be able to handle labour this tiime. I've done it 5 other times and everything was fine. But, yea, I'm still afraid.

Do you have any fears about how life will change after baby gets here?

Not really.

We are all approaching the 3rd trimester and just curious how everyone is doing.

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September 27th, 2012, 07:42 AM
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Do you have any fears about the rest of your pregnancy? No, not really I just want him to continue to be healthy.

Do you have any fears about labor and delivery? Yes, I am afraid of the pain I will be in once my doctor breaks my water..(he usually does this then does the epidural) I am hoping to wait.

Do you have any fears about how life will change after baby gets here? No really fears but nervous about having a newborn again.

We are all approaching the 3rd trimester and just curious how everyone is doing.
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September 27th, 2012, 08:08 AM
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Do you have any fears about the rest of your pregnancy? I worry that all the healthy eating to avoid constipation I am doing still won't be enough and I will end up with the really painful roids again in the 3rd trimester.

Do you have any fears about labor and delivery? Not really

Do you have any fears about how life will change after baby gets here? YES, I am worried how I will split my time between 3 little girls ages 5 and under. The mornings are going to be really tough I think trying to get everyone up, fed and out the door by 7:20.
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September 27th, 2012, 08:08 AM
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Do you have any fears about the rest of your pregnancy? Absolutely. I'm afraid that I'll deliver really early and the girls will have a long stay in the NICU.
Do you have any fears about labor and delivery? I'm probably going to have a c-section and I am terrified. You read about people getting their bladder knicked, I'm scared of being tied down, the numbness. Yeah, I'm just scared.
Do you have any fears about how life will change after baby gets here? I've freaked myself out about SIDS. I don't think I'll sleep ever again once they get here. Also, I'm sick and tired of everyone telling me how hard twins are going to be. I know this. The first couple months are going to be exhausting, but I'm sure I can get through it!
We are all approaching the 3rd trimester and just curious how everyone is doing. I passed my GD test and I am still 7 pounds under my prepregnancy weight. I had an OB appointment this week and she said that she had to check my chart to confirm I was the twin momma because I looked amazing for having twins. That really made me feel good.
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September 27th, 2012, 08:15 AM
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Do you have any fears about the rest of your pregnancy? not too bad, there's always the nagging fear that something will go wrong. And this little gal is sitting so dang low that I sometimes think she's just gonna fall out.

Do you have any fears about labor and delivery? I fear that I'll have back labor again. This is actually my biggest fear about this pregnancy.

Do you have any fears about how life will change after baby gets here? I worry that my son won't adjust well, and I worry about my DH being home with TWO little kids all day every day. i'm sure it will all be fine though...
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September 27th, 2012, 08:16 AM
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Do you have any fears about the rest of your pregnancy? I always worry about still birth or going into labor before 36wks.

Do you have any fears about labor and delivery? I worry that something will go wrong with me or the baby. I worried about this with DS too but I found once I was actually in labor I never thought about it I also worry about having to have a c-section

Do you have any fears about how life will change after baby gets here? Yes!! I'm afraid I won't have enough time for DS and he'll feel left out Even though I highly doubt that will be the case I'm just scared of sharing time with 2 babies, but I'm 100% sure he will love his little brother He already lifts my shirt and lays his head on my belly and he's not even two!
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September 27th, 2012, 08:22 AM
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Do you have any fears about the rest of your pregnancy?
-That something will go wrong concerning my excess amniotic fluid

Do you have any fears about labor and delivery?
-That I will get the same Dr who delivered my son, the practice has 5 Dr's and even though he owns the practice he is horrible. He was being paged for over an hour while my water sac was bulging and which caused me a small tear.

Do you have any fears about how life will change after baby gets here?
-Yes, how will I survive with a newborn and Toddler

We are all approaching the 3rd trimester and just curious how everyone is doing.
-Stressed
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September 27th, 2012, 08:27 AM
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Do you have any fears about the rest of your pregnancy?--Not anything in particular, just always worried something is wrong!

Do you have any fears about labor and delivery?-- I'm worried I am going to get to the hospital and their ONE birthing tub is taken so all my plans will go right out the window. I REALLY want the tub I'm probably gona be laughed at for this but I am also really scared of pooping during delivery! AAAHHH

Do you have any fears about how life will change after baby gets here?
--I wouldnt say fears really, just uncertain, since this is my first child I don't know how my DH and I relationship will change. After my best friend had her baby her and her DH argue CONSTANTLY. They are always at eachothers throats. I don't think that will happen to us but I do hope their will not be that much tension between us.

But all in all I cannot wait to have a daughter!!
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September 27th, 2012, 08:58 AM
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Do you have any fears about the rest of your pregnancy?

Obviously as of right now my biggest fear is that I have gestational diabetes and how that might affect my health and the baby. Other than that my fears are just that something is going to go wrong and I won't know it.

Do you have any fears about labor and delivery?

I'm fearful that I will not know I'm in actual labor or know when it is time to go to the hospital (I have a feeling this will dissipate when the time comes). I'm anxious about the pain and not knowing what I can and cannot handle. I'm also worried that I might need a C section.

Do you have any fears about how life will change after baby gets here?

Mostly how I will handle the lack of sleep and balancing my work that I do from home with having an infant. Other than that, I really look forward to the change and to growing my family.

Man I sound like the ultimate negative nancy in this post! Sorry it's an off day
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September 27th, 2012, 09:22 AM
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Do you have any fears about labor and delivery?

I'm fearful that I will not know I'm in actual labor or know when it is time to go to the hospital
I had this same fear with DS but trust me, you'll know
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September 27th, 2012, 09:55 AM
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Do you have any fears about the rest of your pregnancy? I fear my placenta might rupture again or the baby will get the coord wrapped around her neck and die. These are all things I've delt with in the past.

Do you have any fears about labor and delivery? Just that this is my 4th c-section and I always worry about my uterus rupturing.

Do you have any fears about how life will change after baby gets here? No
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September 27th, 2012, 10:18 AM
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Do you have any fears about the rest of your pregnancy?
I'm afraid of developing high blood pressure again as this pregnancy goes on.

Do you have any fears about labor and delivery?
Um yes! My last one was an induction and took 50 hours. I'm scared of that happening again. Also I. Scared of not being induced because I have no clue of how to do it without being induced. When do I go in?how do I know when it is time? I don't want to go in too late cause Im really planning for an epidural!

Do you have any fears about how life will change after baby gets here?
Not too many, besides how I am going to manage with 2 little ones, especially at night! Eek!

We are all approaching the 3rd trimester and just curious how everyone is doing.
Doing great, excercising daily. Having some back pain and difficulty sleeping, but not too much!
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September 27th, 2012, 10:48 AM
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Do you have any fears about the rest of your pregnancy?
Yep, it's safe to say i'm fearful nearly every day. I'd say my anxiety has come back nearly as bad as it was in the first trimester, i just haven't posted about it at all.

Do you have any fears about labor and delivery?
I'm most fearful that i won't get the kind of delivery that i would like to have. That things will go badly.

Do you have any fears about how life will change after baby gets here?
I'm worried it could change mine and DHs relationship, but i have a strong feeling it will just make us stronger. I am worried about the animals reactions - i know my dog is going to have such a hard time adjusting.

We are all approaching the 3rd trimester and just curious how everyone is doing.
Doing really well - i can't really complain. Other than the heartburn i'd say things are great!
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September 27th, 2012, 11:35 AM
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Do you have any fears about the rest of your pregnancy? I'm nervous about anything going wrong and baby being healthy with me being "AMA"

Do you have any fears about labor and delivery? Not knowing...and then it happening really fast. I was having contractions every 2 minutes with DS and didn't realize it!

Do you have any fears about how life will change after baby gets here? Just adjusting to having a baby again...but more excited than fearful.

We are all approaching the 3rd trimester and just curious how everyone is doing. Fairly good....The 2nd trimester is suppose to be the honeymoon trimester and that never happened. Not sleeping already so that's gonna suck for the next 3 months. but at least I'll be use to not sleeping when she gets here.
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September 27th, 2012, 01:33 PM
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Other than the heartburn i'd say things are great!
Oh I feel ya on the heartburn. Tums are never more than an arms length away from me
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September 27th, 2012, 02:56 PM
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I'm worried about things like developing high b/p. I always worry about something terrible going wrong.

I'm scared I will be bullied during labor/delivery, because I haven't had great experiences with the doctors and nurses so far. I'm afraid of complications developing during labor and the doctor just rushing into a c/s. If it's absolutely necessary, fine, but I feel like doctors just really do it when labor could be allowed to progress naturally instead. I'm worried about him being breech. All these "what if" sort of scenarios. *sigh*

I'm not worried about after he is here. I think we will all adjust pretty quickly. Going from one to two was CRAZY hard, but I'm hoping that this time will be a lot easier. I'm already used to the craziness of our household lol so I don't think 3 kids will put me in the nuthouse. We'll see though
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September 27th, 2012, 04:57 PM
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Do you have any fears about the rest of your pregnancy? That he will be bigger than anticipated and I will have to have a C/S due to size.

Do you have any fears about labor and delivery? That is will be completely different than last time.

Do you have any fears about how life will change after baby gets here? Nah

We are all approaching the 3rd trimester and just curious how everyone is doing. Chugging along
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September 27th, 2012, 09:31 PM
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Do you have any fears about the rest of your pregnancy? Just want to be healthy and continue to have this bean grow up big and strong. Normal mommy worry stuff.

Do you have any fears about labor and delivery? Just normal "what if" stuff, worrying something will go wrong. That and crowning. Crowning is the only part of labor that freaks me out. I am working to get in good mind set so I can just enjoy bringing this baby into the world. I feel like I'm in good hands, though. I have faith that between my body, my baby, my support team, and my midwife, all working together, we'll get it done.

Do you have any fears about how life will change after baby gets here?
Not really. I figure if I can make the jump from one to two, I can make the jump from two to three. I'll manage somehow.
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September 28th, 2012, 06:19 AM
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Do you have any fears about the rest of your pregnancy? Not really fears but a little worry my nausea is never ending or that I will have BP issues again.

Do you have any fears about labor and delivery? No but I definitely did the first time around!

Do you have any fears about how life will change after baby gets here? YES! I am terrified to have a newborn and an extremely active 2 yr old. My son turns 2 a month before baby girl is coming...its going to be hard I am sure but we will get through it.

We are all approaching the 3rd trimester and just curious how everyone is doing? Still nauseous
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