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December 7th, 2012, 09:26 AM
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OMG girls....OUCHIE! Last night it was 4am, I am on the couch can't sleep so I decided I was going to go use hubby for sex and hopefully soften my cervix some and hell, maybe have some good contractions.....we haven't had sex in MONTHS.

I seriously felt like I was a virgin again. It wasn't that it was because it has been awhile, it was like my sides of my vagina were swollen. It hurt soo bad, but I fought through it because honestly I wanted the chances of my cervix to be softened...lol.....but OMG...anyone else fight through the pain. Hubby felt bad, but I told him it is okay and to get used to it. I wasnt dry...it was just tight and hurt. No pressure either...just like swollen, that is the only way I can describe it cause he barely fit.

I know it takes orgasms to help contract the uterus and all that, but girls, how are you having them if it hurts this bad? there is NO WAY I will ever be able to have an orgasm with him in this much pain....should I just give up! ugh. I feel "cheated" because I miss the connection but wow...pain

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December 7th, 2012, 09:32 AM
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OMG Sex hurts my round ligaments when I'm not pregnant, but sex ends in tears when I AM pregnant because of it! SOOOOO painful! I feel sorry for DH. We had sex...last week? I think. I threw up afterward from pain. Pain everywhere. I just don't know, with all the extra pelvic pain now, the nausea, and everything else, if I can do it again. Poor DH.

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December 7th, 2012, 09:32 AM
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Ugh i don't know - i haven't had an oragasm in months, and we've been trying to have sex once a week!! I think the only way that that will be achieved is with my "little friend".
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December 7th, 2012, 09:35 AM
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i am thinking nap time is going to be in order for X and mommy is going to have to start pulling out her "little friend" to get things going....cause there is no way through intercourse I am going to be able to do anything.

Last night makes the 3rd time in 9 months we had sex....seriously...it is sad, i feel awful but it is hard being prego....but now that i want it, i can't even have it cause of pain. UGH UGH UGH....This is awful.

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December 7th, 2012, 10:03 AM
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Ouch! I couldn't imagine doing that right now. My lady parts just feel swollen, like you said. If I want an orgasm my hubby takes care of me with his mouth or I use my hand. I couldn't even imagine using my "little friend" right now...
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December 7th, 2012, 10:08 AM
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My little friend works just fine most of the time, but afterwards, it's NO fun. Poor DH has been neglected for months......
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December 7th, 2012, 10:21 AM
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Ouch! I can imagine that would hurt! Its painful more often then not, but not in my va jay jay. It just makes my Pelvis hurt and alot of times I'll be achy all around there all the next day. And then sometimes it doesn't do that at all.
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December 7th, 2012, 11:08 AM
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Oh, very painful here, like tearing or something, yowch.
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December 7th, 2012, 11:26 AM
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oh gee and I've been whining about missing that intimacy.
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December 7th, 2012, 11:26 AM
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We haven't had sex in weeks. I feel so bad. But last time it was so painful that I actually asked him to hurry up which makes me feel like crap to say to my life partner and love ya know?

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