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May 20th, 2012, 02:10 PM
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Well found out on Thursday, a complete surprise for both of us as we both thought we could not have children.

I am showing, just bloat but enough that I can't hide it. Even if I wore baggy clothes family would know something is wrong as I never wear baggy clothes.

It is going to be hard commuting back and 2 every week but I will do it.

We are very happy about the baby and fingers crossed everything goes ok.
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May 21st, 2012, 02:52 PM
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4th day since finding out. Even though at this moment 10.50pm I have a huge bump and I cant slouch like I like too as it hurts I am over the moon.

I have still not eaten anything since 4pm when I had a nibble and then felt sick for the next 4 hours. Ill skip supper and have a ginger biscuit for breakfast.

Telling the family tomorrow as I can not hide this anymore as they are due in the peak time for my sickness.
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June 17th, 2012, 03:51 PM
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Well its been 4 weeks since I have known I am pregnant. It is still only just sinking in and now I have a scare of brown discharge.

So something I had wanted for 8 years and had given up on ever getting.. I have been given but it may be taken away.

I am being silly as there are more baby is ok reasons for brown cm than there is something wrong with baby so my chances are moderate.

Sitting her numb. Will behere tomorrow night thinking OMG I worried for nothing but we will see.

Hopefully they will call me in for a scan to make sure little one is ok or they will just examin me and tell me its normal and to wait for my dating scan ( 2 - 3 weeks )

Whatever happens I cant prevent it so my sane mind is in the hands of mother nature.
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June 18th, 2012, 10:33 AM
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I am so, so sorry for your loss.
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June 18th, 2012, 12:20 PM
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Well the worst happened and I was told the baby died at 8.5 weeks but my body continued to grow and nurture it.

The brown blood was the start of what cold have been 4-6 weeks of losing the baby.

I opted for the baby to removed by surgery.

My boobs no longer hurt, my bump has gone and I am heart broken.

My baby along with others from the week will be cremated together and scattered over the baby part of the local cemetery.

I told Serenity and se is heart broken and asking why the baby died. I had no answers. I wish I did.

I feel my own body has betrayed me.

This will be last post on this board as I have been here since 6 weeks pregnant and seen alot of the loss posts and Jan 13 EDD to me has been doomed. Never have I seen so many losses on a board. I know its silly but its my current way of dealing.

After discussing with my other half, we defeated the odds about becoming pregnant so inside there is hope of another miracle conception.

All I know is never to ignore brown discharge and put it off as nothing. I am never going to say brown is old blood again,... ever.

I wish you ALL happy and healthy pregnancies and hope my own tragedy is the last one of this board.

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