[jamie1005]

A few weeks back I posted something asking about progestrone levels for a friend of mine. Well, for the last few weeks she's been telling me that she was convinced she had a "missed misscarriage" and I kept telling her that everyone fears the worst when they are pregnant and that I was sure things were fine. I told her if she was worried to call the dr b/c her appt wasn't until a couple weeks later. Well, today she went in to hear the heartbeat and they couldnt' find it. They did an u/s and confirmed that the baby had stopped developing at 9wks and her body didn't miscarry, so she had to have a D&C. I feel so bad for her. She's had so many bad things happen to her in her life. I don't even know what to say. Then on top of that, she told me over MSN Messenger. I meant to call her b/c I knew her appt was today, but with everything dealing with Wade's job, I forgot. She said she's fine, but her husband was taking it hard. I just feel terrible, especially since I was trying to convince her that she was fine.

[Madeline410]

aww Jamie it sounds like you are having a tough day! Keep your chin up darling, things can only get better from here.

HUGS and prayers to your friend.. I can't imagine how empty her heart is right now.

[~Trina~]

awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww

[~Casey~]

My friend felt like you do when I had my missed mc (before Grace). She kept telling me oh don't worry, but I just knew. I called her and all I could say was, "It's over. The baby is dead." Well, that wasn't really the best way for me to put it, but she was guilt ridden for some time. To be honest, I never was upset because she was only being a great friend by trying to encourage me to be positive. Also, the best thing she did was call me a lot afterwards to just talk. I had other friends avoid me because they didn't know what to say, and that was really hurtful. Even if my friend didn't say the right things when she called at least I knew she cared enough to call me.

[jamie1005]

My friend felt like you do when I had my missed mc (before Grace). She kept telling me oh don't worry, but I just knew. I called her and all I could say was, "It's over. The baby is dead." Well, that wasn't really the best way for me to put it, but she was guilt ridden for some time. To be honest, I never was upset because she was only being a great friend by trying to encourage me to be positive. Also, the best thing she did was call me a lot afterwards to just talk. I had other friends avoid me because they didn't know what to say, and that was really hurtful. Even if my friend didn't say the right things when she called at least I knew she cared enough to call me.[/b]

Thaks so much, that really helps a lot. I'll be sure to call her a lot and make sure things are ok.