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So since Cory left he's called twice. The first time he called wasn't until two weeks after he left because he was so "busy" hanging with his dad, shopping and getting his health card. Those are is words. Too busy to pick up the phone for 5 minutes and see how the kids are, huh? He said that I'm just being paranoid that his mother is trying to convince him of anything. But c'mon after everything that's happened who can blame me for thinking the worst.
Anyway, he called the other day and said that we all sounded so much happier since he moved. Well, yeah we are. The boys aren't fighting as much anymore, they actually get along and play together which is awesome. I'm happy with how things are now too. He's quiet for a little bit and then confesses that he's not as happy as he thought he would be and that he's actually pretty lonely. Huh. Guess you should think before making rash decisions based on what your mother wants next time then.
*sigh* I hope he gets some sense and realizes how much he needs to be in the boys' lives. My pastor always says, "If the grass seems greener on the other side, it's only cuz you haven't gotten over there to screw it up yet."
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What a shame. It sounds to me like it is what is best for you and kids though. I hope he makes more of an effort to stay in touch even if he is "busy". I would encourage him to try and make the best of it and make a life for himself where he is at. It seems unfair for him to start playing games if he plans to try and go back and forth, in and out of their lives. Not saying he has done that yet but it seems to me he needs to work on himself before he can be a good role model and Dad that the boys can look up to.
Give the boys a hug from me, I am so glad they are doing well!!!
This makes me mad after how he treated you guys. UGH I am glad he is missing you and the boys and I hope he makes an effort to be in the boys lives take them to the park/movies/to mcd's just to spend time together. I am glad that you all are doing so well without him. It was almost opposite here that and the fact he left before Daniel turned 2 for the terrible two's lol. I hope you are still feeling good about the decision and are happier, even if he isnt.
Shaina, I think you know that I'm still feeling GREAT about the decision and am happier lol I'll admit that there is a part of me that feels bad for him because he doesn't seem to know what he wants, but I'm not about to give up any more of my life to see that he's happy
I do feel very sorry for Cory...because he doesnt seam to be thinking through the choices he is making or the things he is saying. I hope he figures some stuff out or he is going to be a person filled with regrets. I am so glad to hear that you and the boys are doing well and moving on with your future!