[bluebutterfly]

Hayden is a total mama's boy, which is understandable since I am the only parent, so needless to say he doesn't like to share my attention. When Cory is visiting Hayden is okay with him as long as he's not anywhere near me. The second Hayden notices bf has my attention he cries and throws himself against me until I pick him up. I know it's because he's used to having me all to himself so he really doesn't understand.

But in September we'll be moving in with bf so he'll be going to having to share the attention for a few days every couple of months to all the time. I know he'll get used to it, but then a few months after that the new baby will be here and there be another person to divide my attention with. I guess I'm just feeling guilty because he's so used to it being just me and him and in such a short time he's going to be me and him plus 2 more and I don't want him to feel left out or "abandoned" kwim?

[Melz]

Im having this feeling as well!!! Jordyn is a total mommies girl. I am scared for the divided attention..

[JCat]

Me too!! Ivy is so attached to me right now. She doesn't even like it when DH shows to much attention to me or I to him...It's amazing that we're even expecting again, it really is with the way she acts sometimes. I'm so very nervous about spliting my time and how she'll react. I mean right now she doesn't have to share her world with anyone.