Poor girls! You ladies all need a vacation!
I hope the news gets better about the kidneys - I'm sure her little body has been overwhelmed.
And, I cannot believe they told you to wait out a fever that high. That was like last year when Kellan was coughing so hard that he was purple and not breathing and they told us it was "just a cold". The next night Kellan was hooked up to IV's and breathing machines at the major children's hospital with whooping cough.
I think that the ER must get so many people with "sniffly" babies that they just start acting as if everyone there is exaggerating.
I hope your little ladies are on the mend soon and I hope you are getting some rest.